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Location: Howell, Michigan
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Age: 13
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okay i like this guy and hes a freshman n im an 8th grader we tlk on the fone alot! and like ughh...i like him SOOOO much! he says the right things at the right moments! and we get along great! im gonna see him this friday...hopefully but im really shy in person...not on the fone tho...wat do i do?!

...help!
i rate high btw!
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Try flirting- A LOT, it should work. If he just doesn't get that you like him, either try harder or find another guy. Since you guys get along great, I'm sure he'll get the sign so you or him can make a move.


im a sophomore in high school and theres this senior that is really hott. lately ive been starting to talk to him, but hes really shy, and so am i. what could i do to get us to talk more?? (link)
Start some conversation with him, such as seeing what you have in common and that kinda stuff. Be yourself and don't be fake.


ok well there's this guy...and i think i might like him! well... i used to really hate him, but i barely knew him...and now that i know him really well, we're really good friends- and hes so cute! he has a girlfriend who is in high school now (we are 8th graders) but he flirts with me a lot, he pretends to ask me out in a kidding way and he like tells me i'm hot, he actually flirts with a lot of girls though, especially one of my best friends, but i totally like him! another thing is that he used to go out with another one of my friends, who i am kind of making up. she really hates him now, though,and this is just so weird. I don't know what I should do! i like this guy sooo much! please help me! i rate ♥ (link)
Make him like you! Just flirt with him a lot, but don't go overboard on it. Talk to him a lot and that kinda stuff. Don't interfere with his relationship though, cuz you don't want either him or his gf to get PO'd at you. If you're really concerned you'll hate him later, go with what your heart says. Don't make it a situation where you feel like he's more important than your friends.


Theres this boy that I met a while back, and I sorta like LOVE him! It's a weird feeling. When I got back that day from meeting him, I started imaginaing marrying him! He was so sweet, caring, and funny!! He was like my perfect boy! The thing is im 13/f and I don't even know if he likes me!! He's 14 and my family only sees his family once or twice a year!! Any advice on this situation? (link)
I felt the same way about one of my guy friends too. Later, I found out it couldn't work cuz we couldn't see each other on a daily basis. If you feel like you must go out with him or something, go with it. Although, if you feel like something bad could happen, don't do it. If I were you, I'd try to find someone else who I could see regulary.


Hey does anyone know what that machine that gets rid of split ends is called? It sorta looks like a straightner i think and when you run it over your hair it removes all split ends. Does anyone know where i can get it in america? or what website i can order it from if i live outside of america? Thank you soo much for any answer=) (link)
It's something like the Split-Ender. They sell it at drugstores and places like that. Personally, I would trust it cuz you don't know for sure if it'll actually work. Get a real cut done instead.


ok... well i'm really good friends with a lot of guys in my grade... we are really close and two always say they love me and i love them back... but i never thought of it as more then a "plutonic" or friendly love... but i think i started to like one guy then he got a girlfriend and it halfway broke my heart... so then when i met this other guy i automaticly liked him from the start and both these guys were always and still are flirting with me. well they both have girlfriends now and they ignore me now... it's been making me depressed and i don't know what to do?? (link)
I totally sucks doesn't it? Been there, done that or whatever moral goes along with that. I'd try to find another guy, someone who's better and capable of keeping a good relationship with a girl. Be cool, cute and yourself. Get over the two who ignore you now. They aren't worth your time.


okay, i really really need help!! this guy and i, were supposidly dating... i like him so much, and he said he liked me... well last night he called and he starting fighting with me over the fact that i never give him a straightforward answer... i dunno what thats supposed to mean, but i always tell him i dont care, and i guess that bothers him... well he told me everything was over... and then told me he was getting sick and needed to take a shower, so i told him to call me back after becasue we needed to talk about this... so he called back like 15mins later and was all calm and he stopped yelling at me... but he was like i hate how you cant tell me exactly what you want, and how you only do stuff to make me happy... im so confused... if theres anybody who can help me witht his please do!! are we still broken up? how can i get him back? what are smoeways i can get over him?? anything will help... but please!! soon! thanks (link)
So you guys broke up. I'd tell him you're sorry for not giving him an answer, and then tell him how much you care for him and want to get back together. If he says no, that's the way it goes. Find somebody new and better.


There's this boy that was in all my classes last year (in the 7th grade). Jock. Jerk. Popular. Biggest S.O.B. to walk the earth. Everyone liked him, but I loathed him. He would make fun of how unpopular and "weird" I was, he'd laugh with his scruffy friends during French whenever I made a mistake, he'd even call me bad names sometimes. So I got even with him and stole his baseball hat, and hid it, and laughed and made fun of him whenever he made a fruitless attempt to find it. I didn't even get in trouble! After a while, he found the hat. This year, he suddenly started being nice to me. He gave me compliments, started sending me IMs, etc. I was nice back, and in a suttle way we became friends, but I didn't forget how much of an asshole he was last year. Friday, this guy I barely know told me that he (the boy) said I was really hot and nice. I'm confused. Do you think he likes me or he's just scared I'll steal his hats? (link)
I think he likes you. No clue why, but guys act all jerky and weird to get the girls attention. That's what I've heard anyway. IT'S FREAKING ANNOYING, I know. I'd just be nice to him back and stuff, and wait a little while to see if he does like you. I highly doubt it's all an act, but wait and see what happens.


how do i get a boy to like me when he already has a gf or at least notice me? (link)
Follow up on his interests. Most boys here love sports and I love basketball so it was easy for me to talk to the guys about it. Don't act all fake though, you shouldn't lose sight on who you are. Be cool, cute and confident. Guys love a girl who can be herself and have a good time doing that.


ok so heres my problem.
my cousin,(josh)is 17 was dating this girl sarah 19...
well josh told me to start talking to sarah to see what i thought of her.
well i did. we became really good friends.
then her brother started listening in our conversations and reading our ims when we would talk.
so she told him to talk to me so he wouldnt be so nosy. so i started talking to him. he's wonderful
he's 2 years older than me and he's wonderful..
so we got together.
even though i had met his sister,i had never met him. well, it turns out i started liking him.
alot
and thinking about him, all the time.and i told him i really liked him. and he said he felt the exact same way so..
he asked me out. and of course, i said yes.
he's almost 15 and i'm almost 14.
i love him, i do. with all my heart and he says he loves me back.i told him i wouldnt let myself
fall inlove until i go to see him in june.
but, i think i already have.
he is exactly what i've always wanted. he's perfect.
i think i'm too young to think he's the one.
but i want him to be. and i think, once i'm older he will be.
i think i might be getting a promise ring when i go see him. as in.. like promise to marry him, promise ring.
because of what his sister tells me.

when ever we have a fight, he immediately says its his fault and that he's sorry.
he says that he'd rather it always be his fault
than for him to be mad at me or me to be mad at him.

am i too young to think he's the one????
pllleeeeaaasssseee help
FAST!!!!!

i'll rate 5's. (link)
Do what your heart tells you. If you think he's the one, he could possibly be the one. He seems like a very sweet and responsible guy and you aren't too young to think he's the one. Get to know him a lot more and you might figure it out a lot faster.


My boyfriend is coming over later today to stay for awhile because we haven't seen each other much lately. The thing is, I don't know what to do when he gets here! He's going to be here for awhile, what can we do that's not super boring, I don't want him to think that I'm boring! Um, the only idea I have would be to show him all of our vacation pictures (there's like a billion!) does anyone else have any ideas? Please help! I will rate high! (link)
If you know what he likes (as in sports or whatever) do that. You could also watch T.V. shows, movies, etc. or take a walk or something like that. Have some food around though, LOL.


do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him? (link)
It depends on who broke up with who. If you broke up with him and he still likes you, yes he would get jealous probably. But if he broke up with you, he shouldn't get jealous unless he regrets breaking up with you.


i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
She's on T.V. and he's here with you. Come on, he's like never gonna meet her. I'd tell him that it makes you feel weird when he just talks about her. He's being rude saying how hot she is and not complementing you. Let him know you feel jealous and that you don't mean it. It's some crazy love thing that happens to anyone. Hopefully, he'll understand.


okay well I like this guy alot but he's so confussing.I mean he will tell me he like's me and flirt's with me then the next day he will act like he dosn't like me and start talking about another girl.It's like he can't decied if he actualy likes me or not.I've liked him since like December and I've had boyfriends since then, but always have wanted him.Im so confussed and don't know if he really like's me or is just pulling this along.I've tried to just get over him but it didn't work.I don't know really what to do.please help.

--Confussed love (link)
I know this really sucks. Guys act one way and then another. I don't know why, they just do. I'd ask him out, and if he says no, find another and better guy.


Okay, well.. I've known this kid for like, ever! Since he moved here. And I was his FIRST friend when he moved up here. Well, anyways.. I liked him when I was little. But then I thought, that's kinda weird cause he's my best friend..So then I just started to like him this year. And, I tried to get over him, but I can't. What's your advice for me? What should I do???


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This has happened to me before. Don't worry about it though. Either tell him you like him or try to get over him and find another guy. If you do find another guy, you can always go to him for advice and stuff.


I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too (link)
The same thing happen to me. Just tell him how you feel. Even if he doesn't like you in that way, he'll respect you for telling him your feelings.




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