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Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months now. now his ex keeps calling him and tries to talk to him when she knows that he doesnt want to talk to her.. it makes me kinda mad.. how do i get this to stop?¿?............. (he hasnt done anything wrong.. she calls him all the time but he tries to ignore her.. now she's starting to make rude remarks about me.

1)you could tell her to back off b/c he's not with her anymore and see how it flows 2)tell your boyfriend you really don't feel comfortable with her calling to please tell her to stop it now!! 3)she can call and nag the shiz out of him til he's sick of it trust me she'll eventually stop!! 4)bitch slap the mudder fudder then maybe she'd be too scared to mess with you two anymore and ya'll will live happily ever after without ex's

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Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months now. now his ex keeps calling him and tries to talk to him when she knows that he doesnt want to talk to her.. it makes me kinda mad.. how do i get this to stop?¿?

well you could just tell your boyfriend you don't like the fact that he talks to his ex sooooo much that you really want him to stop it and hopefully he will

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J-dUH*

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ok, im only 13, but... my best friend liked this kid..and he just started going out with a girl, that everyone hates, and that boy is well, my best friend.. i dont wanna tell him no one lyks his girlfriend, cuz i dont want him to get mad..what should i do?

well even though you dont really want to you could just drop hints that people dont like her and see if he likes your other friend and maybe just maybe you can get the two of them a hook up bud!! g00d luck x3

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JDUH*

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Well see im 14 and a female:-P and i have a boyfriend named Ryan and i really really like him and he really likes me tooo but we never like hold hands *n that stuff its been like a month now *n im not sure what to doo i dont want to and him not want to soo what should i do??

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goodness gracious , that sounds complicated lol but you could talk to him about it and find out his side of it then you could just go with it from there it's just all depending on him but good luck x3

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Jada*

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Alright .. theres this boy that I really like, hes been my best friend for a long time and I tell him everything. Recently I told him that I liked him, and he said he loved me too. The next day he changed his mind and didn't want me(He does this to a lot of girls) I didn't think he was gonna hurt me because we've always been friends. Now that he hurt me, we aren't friends like we used to be and I cry a lot. I really wanna be with him. Please tell me how to get over him.. or whatever you think I should do about it.

well it's just natural for a guy to like different people ( same with gurls ) but if you truely want to be with him you should talk to him about it and just let him know you like him so much and maybe he'll realize what all his options are and give him a little bit of time and hopely things will work out for the best bud! g00d luck x3

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Jada*

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okay i like this kid okay and he sweet talks me on the internet and stuff and says how much he cares about me, and like when we hang out we like "snugle" or wutver but he dont wanna go out with me. . like he wont ask me out. whats up with that?

well how ghetto lol but i know about a similar situation with one of my friends & it gets her so irritated but if thats the facts just tell him to slow his roll on the stuff cause he's looking for love in all the wrong places ( ha like the song ok imma stop now ) anywayz good luck with your situation !!! x3

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JaDa*

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I like my bestfriend Jeff people say that me and him will get married but im sure he dont like me like that....do u think i should try to ask him out in risk are friend ship?

well you have nothing really to lose b/c i'm pretty sure he wouldn't drop you as a friend for you being courious i'm sure i misspelled that but you get the point but i say GO FOR IT !!! lol

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ok so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend its not like i need one but all of my friends have had atleast one everyone tells me that i dont make it odvious enough so how do i make it odvious in a way that doesnt seem needy or pathetic i also want some advice on how to flirt not just generic stuff but really in depth please help!!!

ok well if ya wanna be flirty u have 2 be rockin a hottttt outfit ( like destinys child says ) but newaysz & jus through out flirty lines 2 sum hot guys & flaunt it & you'll have a guy ~n~ no time sry i didnt give you like things to say but everyone is different & sum guys look better than others ... lol but i hope sumthin i said works good luck x3

hope i helped ya out

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i really like this boy and he knows i like him but im afraid to ask him wat he thinks of me,but i dont want to get rejected wat should i do.

get one of your friends to ask him for yew like one yew trust but not your bestfriend because then yew might as well ask him because then he would defidently know you sent her/him dont try to look too avalible but show that your interested & if he doesnt like yew thats his problem dont cry ova it hes not worth those tears babe :) good luck x3

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JaDa*

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I'm thinking about making a cd with all the songs that make me think of the guy I like (much too weak a word, believe me) and then giving it too him, but I'm not sure what message that would send. We've been best friends for about five years, and while i'm willing to risk a great friendship for what i feel would be a better relationship, I don't want him to think i have a secret shrine to him in my closet (i don't, btw). any advice on how this might make him feel or the possible consequences to my following up on it?

15/f

well my thoughts are that you should make the cd & give it to him & say something like " Hey i know that we're really good friends but i want you to listen to this & tell me what you think of " or something like that then maybe if hes got a little bit of sense he would find the connection between him & the songs good luck x3

hope i helped ya out

JaDa*

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Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."

I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.

Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.

Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.

Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.

I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway?

(A)well i guess you could just try 2 move on & get another bf because you dont wanna be with any one who will make you unconfortable or make you do sumthing you dont want 2 soooo just try to move on but still be friends (B) you could tell him how you feel & see what happens (C) just pretend you dont like him anymore & cry in private , & become a lonely old lady with 20 something cats OPTION C WAS A JOKE !!!!
but i really dont know what else 2 say good luck x3

hope i helped ya out

JaDa*

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13/f i like this guy but he's 16!! i don't know what to do!! we haven't really talked that much..but i know alot about him from his friends..i like love him so much!! what do i do?

well his age really doesn't matter but if you truely love him then then you should stay with him

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JaDa*

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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx

ok well lets see i think you should tell both sets of parents , just set them down 2 by 2 or all together & just say something like , " Mom , Dad i really really love this boy & he feels the same way & i reallllly think we would be together along time & i would be really really hurt if we had to break up" ( notice how many times i said really lol ) but i hope it all works so ya'll can stay together :)

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Hey guys. Well.. tonight I went to a club for the first time, and met this really great guy. He asked to dance with me, and we did for a while, and attempted to talk a bit (but the music was so loud, so we went and sat down) He introduced me to some of his friends too. Anyway, I had to leave early.. and out of nowhere I asked for his number. This is TOTALLY out of character for me. I'm usually shy around guys, but hey. He gave it to me and then I gave him mine, and then he walked me to the door. I may be being paranoid, but was this coming across a little too eager or forward? I had a feeling he wanted to ask, but I could be wrong. Also, should I contact him first or let him contact me? I'm just totally new to this kinda thing and lost.

Thank you!

ok well i know how you feel let him call you then real that sucker in like a fish lol good luck

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JaDa*

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ok so the question is the subject pretty much. My best guy friend likes someone but he won't tell me who. he gives me clues and they sound like me. can u help? thanks in advance. the clues are:
-Its someone in austin ( he lives in kerville)
-Its someone in are grade and goes to ur school
then he was like im not sure if i like them though then he said this:
-I no deep down in my heart that i like her b/c a guy use to like her and she liked him and i got jealous. one of his friends liked me and i liked him but it didnt work out.
-Its someone who youse to like me a long time ago (i use to like him and he new it b/c i told him)

well by those clue it could possibly be you but it may not soooo dont just hop on 4 the ride , be patience & see if he does anything that you know without a DOUBT its you

good luck
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JaDa*

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Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!!

well i personally think you should go out with his friend because a gurl alwayz needs a guy who cares !!!

hope i help ya out

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