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14/m
This Saturday(Jan 23) i have my first date with a girl. We're goin to see a movie, and i need any advice for my first date, this will be her second date as she went out with some other guy. Neither of us has kissed anyone.
So any advice would be great thanks :) (link)
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Dont rush anything
Make her laugh as much as you can and be polite.Hold her hands when you guys are walkin buh make sure you go for it first
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Me and this guy,joe have been talking for about a month. We chilled every weekend atleast once except this weekend.We chilled during the week too and at school he would accompany me to my locker ,to lunch,to class and kiss me before class.Friday we made plans but he told me his brother was coming down and it was his bro's birthday so he couldn't chill.He texted me the next day,just to talk but it wasn't for very long.Then he texted me again later that night just to talk as well.His brother left the next day but he told me he had a formal party to go to that night (which is true because another one of my friends was there and saw him) and so he couldn't chill but he said after the party ,he could hangout.He never called me after the party and it's been a whole day since he's texted me.Am I being crazy? I'll see him at school tomorrow for sure because I have a class with him.But is he just busy this weekend? or is he trying to brush me off?We were going so good and last weekend he told me he really liked me .Nothing bad happened between us either!Also,if he does continue to talk to me at school,should i confront him about it? or will he just think im nagging? I guess we aren't going out,so i don't really have the right to be mad but I'm worried! (link)
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He was just busy this weekend and you had proof.But you should comfront him about it and see whats good between ya 2.See if he wanna be with you if thats what you want 100% and know it.And no your not being crazy you like him n he likes you you have the right to act that way considering the fact you 2 been talking for a lil bit
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so my and my boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up like 2 months ago. we hung out once like about a month after we broke up and everything went well, or so it seemed. he texted me and we were still good friends. i liked it. now he doesn't text me anymore and he rarely texts me back so i texted him saying "i need to ask you something" i want to ask him if were done being friends so i can just give up and move on with my life...problem is he didn't answer me. i know he loses his phone alot but i don't want to make myself seem desperate. i'm fine without a relationship with him but he still means something to me and i want to be friends and i want to know if i'm wasting my time...i don't just want to randomly stop talking to him cause that just brings awkwardness and i really don't want to do that. what should i do? (link)
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Just stop textin him and see if he still wants to be your friend because if he really does he'll text you and not ignore you
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hiya....well i split up with my ex a few months ago..and on new year i met a guy that i liked...he asked for my number and i made the mistake of bringing him home with me that night...he seemed different to other guys, he went home the next day and said that he would give me a text..he text me a few days later saying thanks for letting him stay and that did i have a good year we texted each other abit and that was the end of the txts...i got a text from him a couple of days ago saying that he was in my town and if he could come round with his friend..i said ok so he came round and i was with my mate who i live with...so their was 2 guys and me and my mate...me and this guy ended up going to bed while my mate and his mate were downstairs...we came downstairs a few hours later and then they both went home(but not straight away) he said that he would give me a text and he did the nest day..my mate and his mate got on really well and he said that he likes her and basically wants to get to know her nothing happened between them....im just wondering now does he actually like me or am i just a booty call? he does seem genuine and a nice guy...his mate says he is going to see if he likes me but i dont now what goes on in mens heads!!...do u think he actually likes me????? xx (link)
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It seems like your a booty call.He texts you days at a time and see's you when he wants something from you
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Ok so I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is about to be 20 years old. We always talk about how we can't wait to finally live together and start our own live together. Now the only problem I have is that I want to have a baby already. How should I tell him that I want to have a baby? He loves children and we have both talked about how we would like to have a large family together. I know that a baby is alot of work, but I feel that we are ready for it. Please help! (link)
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Ask him how he would feel about having a kid right now.After he answers that u'll know what to say
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Me and this guy have been talking for about 3 weeks and we hungout the last two weekends and during the week and at school and stuff and we kissed in school and he bought me a drink and held me ,etc.We kinda made plans to chill on the weekend but not officially.His brother (who he considers his best friend) came down from college for the weekend and it was his birthday, so he called me on friday and said he couldnt hangout because of that.Then he didnt text me the rest of the night until the next day and he just texted me to talk and he was still spending time with his brother. He texted me really late at night and was drunk and we talked for a bit and made plans to hangout the next night.He texted me a little bit but then i asked him to hangout and he said he was going to a sweet sixteen and he could chill after 12am ...and he never called me.I don't know if he's just been busy this weekend or if he doesn't like me anymore.When he was texting me ,he was doing smiley faces and talking so idk what the deal is.Should i be concerned? (link)
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Not at all! His just busy i bet next weekend his not going to be busy so you 2 can see eachother.Dont be negative about it,its nothing ;)
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I like this boy but am scared to tell him that i like him to his face...so i have decided to slip love notes into his locker until valentines day then tell him that i was the one who wrote them...Is this a good idea? Does anyone think it is cute and that he would like this? Thnx in advance!!14/F (link)
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Dat is so cute like for real.I hope everything goes right for you ;)
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There is this boy i like-lets call him S-well i have known S for 3 yrs. And everyone knows we like each other...but at the beginning of the year my "friend" K kissed him in front of me and she knows that i have a crush on him...so now me and her are not really friends...so last week i had one of my friends go and ask him if he liked me and he said that he did but that i didn't act that way towards him so he was like now he doesn't know if he likes me anymore because he says i pretend like he is no one...how do i show him that i like him/build up the courage to tell him. How do i find out if he really likes me? Also he is a really big flirt. (link)
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Mayb he just needs a person to be with him so he wont be such a flurt.And if so just flurt with him a little or have convo's with him and just tell him the way you feel bit by bit or just give him signs
ex: you say: your such a flurt you know that
and if he says he knows say sumthing like "if i was your girlfriend i bet you wouldn't be 1
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19/sophomore in college
boy #1: my friend tyler and i have had a history since spring of senior year. i guess you could say we were together, we went to prom together, but we never dated (he asked to become official, but i didn't see a point since we'd be going to college and we'd be at opposite ends of the country..he's on the west coast, i'm on the east coast) we've been on and off and we hook up when we're both home, we had sex for the first time together over winter break, but it didn't change anything between us.
boy #2: this past semester at school i became friends with this kid chris. we hung out a lot and went on "dates" together. we both like each other, but i think he likes me a lot more than i like him. he's in the same group of friends as me also.
my issue is i don't know what to do. i like chris, but i don't know where his heads at (i'm going to talk to him when we get back to school) but i'm nervous and i don't even know what to say or where to start. i don't know if i should date one of them, if i should just keep things the way they are or if i should stop it with one or with both of them. they both don't know about each other so should i tell them? it's such a complicated mess that i've created and it's making me go crazy. anything will help. thank you (link)
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You shouldn't tell them cause your not with eather of them yet.Chris is the 1 you should talk to and if he wants to be with you then you should go for it.If everythings good between yo two after a month or so then you have to tell tyler about him.Tell him that you are happy with this guy and if you two could just be friends.
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16/f
i have many insecurities about my boyfriend cheating on me or is flirting with other girls. the reason for that, was because my first boyfriend he cheated on me twice. and i got broken up a couple of times in a row because they started liking another girl by flirting or they were cheating. and my first longest relationship liked his ex girlfriend while going out with me and was talking to another girl in the beginning of the relationship. now my current boyfriend i've been with for about 13 months, he flirted with another girl in the beginning of the relationship. after he got caught, he actually admitted it. the thing is that he is very honest to me and he would actually admit it if he was cheating on me. i spoke to him about my insecurities before and actually told him why and everything, he understood me, but he doesn't exactly know what to do to help me. he said if he was cheating on me, he would tell me straight up and he wouldn't hide it or anything. i know myself he's not cheating o me, but i keep thinking at times that he is. like, whenever he doesn't really answer my text message or phone call even sometimes when i just see him 3 minutes afterwards i feel insecure. so i usually think about the possibilities like he has band practice, he's hanging out with his friends, he's sleeping, he's doing chores or something. but i end up running out of ideas and he ends up calling me later and apologizes saying whatever he did earlier. in the back of my mind or when i run out of ideas i keep thinking he's kissing another girl or having sex with them. i hate it when i think that way. i try whatever i can to ignore it. i try to think positive or think about all the possibilities from before. is there anything i can do? (link)
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You must stop that and start thinkin positive because if theirs no trust then theirs no relationship.You have to understand that he isn't them other guys or your ex's so you cant punish him with your insecurity because of the people who messed with your heart.You just have to think if you would like if he would act that way towards you when you had missed a call or something.If you really beleave deep down that his not like those other people then you shouldn't feel the way you do all the time
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So there is this guy at school that i have liked for a long while. We used to talk a little, just say hi and little questions here and there. He is pretty shy. He told me he liked me two weeks ago, so i decided that it would be okay for me to just tell him that i liked him too. I feel like he is too shy though because when we see each other all he will do is smile and give me a hug. I'm the one who tries to make conversations so things aren't so awkward. He won't call me for some odd reason. He will text me, and he doesn't say much.When he does want to hang out, he wants me to go over to his house, and he won't offer to find a way to come get me, or at least meet half way. This pisses me off because i don't chase guys. His friend and I have been tight for a really long while so we are really good buddies. He just told me last week that he liked me and all this other stuff about how he wants to go out with me. Since the guy #1 doesn't really seem to like me, wants me to chase him, i'm getting really sick and tired of it. I was wondering if you guys think it would be weird if I just ignored him from now on. And maybe go on a few dates with the guy that asked me out so i could maybe make him jealous?.....i hope this wasn't confusing...tell me what you guys think i should do? I still like the first guy, but i'm getting really irritated by his behavior...i don't know wether or not to look at it as shy, or if he is acting like he likes me. (link)
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You should go on the date and see other people.He cant expect you to wait around for him forever.Plus if you know the 1st guy really likes you then his going to approach you for the fact that your seeing other people.But eather way you win ur going out wit sum1 you like and if the 1st guy decides he acutally wants you n shows you then you can go out wit him instead
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Okay well me and my boyfriend have been through alot, we've gone out like 10 times . No joke , and each time we broke up we'd miss each other like crazy so we'd get back together . We text , and the thing is i like talking to him on the phone but he just doesnt take the hint . He texts so BORING ! It gets me so frusterated ! He just isnt outgoing through text . When we're together hes sweet and nice , but through text he just bores me to death ! I don't know what to do to get him to just be more upfront and outgoingg ! Please help ! (link)
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You have to tell him you want more phone convo'z.If you dnt b upfront den ur not really being honest with eachother and if he doesn't say call then his probly just not ready for a real long term relationship
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