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why do some girls like giving head?
me and my boyfriend we're wondering. (link)
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haha good question, as i girl i also think its kinda werid and gross, but i think its the whole making your bf/partner (w/e you want to call it) happy. & knowing that your making him happy, it can feel good.
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so i like this guy and i am pretty sure he like me blahblahblah the problem is now he knows i like him and its kind of awkward to be around him any ideas how to not make is so weird????? (link)
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Hmm...well if you like him, and he likes you then whats the problem? haha just flirt with him then things will go from there :)
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this from :friends dont do this to each other right?
the thing is that i have feeling for her. and when i told her that she said she was fine with it but not sure what gender she likes, but she doesnt feel the same way. but when she is a close person to ME (i dont see her do that to others but only me.) yes she is a close person but why will she do that to me? and scerw up my mind? she did that close sitting before i told her how i felt. we still hang out and tease each other like sisters. but i cant stop thinking of her being to me. she leans on me most of the time. so its hard to tell does she like me or is she a close touchy friend?
my guy friend does the closness to me too and he is Bi, i ask him why he was close lto me that day when he viist me. he said old feelings came back to him. because he used to have a crush on me. so when i think about that. i realized that jon was leaning and holding me like what Mandy did to me. so this is confusing....... (link)
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Oh, i'm sorry i didn't realize it was like that, but i would say that ur friend isn't too sure of what she wants...all i can say it to talk to her about it. I can't tell her what she thinks and i can't help you with what she feels jsut by a her being close to you.
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There's this one guy, Tyler. He's friends with a lot of my camp friends, who I see regularly. I talk to him online at least once a day, generally. We have great chemistry. We just fit together really well. He's like a puzzle piece that connects to me. I only met him once, and we didn't really talk then. It was at a party, and I was kind of shy. We just said 'hi' twice and left it at that. But I really really like him. I think about him constantly, and everytime I do, I have to smile. I can try to supress it, but I do it anyway. We're meeting up in a few weeks, and I absolutely can not wait.
But there's this girl, Kate. She's a friend of mine, and she knows him. She's really great. I kind of used to feel like I always had to act a certain way around her, to impress her, and I know other people who have said that too. But it's kind of stopping now, and we're getting closer. Being friends with her means a lot to me. And if we weren't great friends, I feel like I'd lose a lot of my other friends, too. She's kind of the leader of our camp group. Also, last year at camp, I wasn't really part of the popular group, but I was friends with all of them. I've been going to camp for the longest out of all of them except one. I even introduced it to two of them. And I always, always wanted to be part of that group. If I don't have Kate, I don't have anyone and once again, I won't be popular. This is my last summer at camp before I become a counselor, and I really want to be part of their group. Not even for that, but it just means a lot to me. But there's still the thing with losing friends if I don't have her.
The problem? I don't think she really "approves" of Tyler(when I say approve, I mean he's just not really cool enough for her. He's not into anything bad or anything like that; he's a good guy). I mean, she talks to him, but sometimes she'll say something about him(I usually don't let it slide though, I'll be like, "I don't know, he seems so sweet," or something). My other friend, Lyla, was really great friends with her before. Her and Kate were best friends. But then Lyla started going out with another guy who Kate didn't approve of, and they're not nearly as great friends anymore. They keep having mini-fights and they're just not close. I'm afraid to spend time with Tyler, because if we end up together, or even if she finds out that I like him, she might not approve of it. I really need her to, but I also need him. I have absolutely no idea what I'm going to do.
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Well thats sooo great with Tyler, and i think that you really shouldn't care of what she thinks. You can have him as a crush/boyfriend w.e, and still be friends with kate though. Just when your around her dont talk about Tyler too too much. But i guess you kind of have to learn about pleasing urself, and not others. I know you just want to be popular, i know i truly do know. But highschool is pretty much the dumbest thing..and right now its seems like it means everything to us, but wait in a few years, say you just ditch tyler or w/e, you'll be thinking of how much you really wish you just went with your heart. But if say Kate dosn't approve and dosn't talk to you (which is most likly NOT going to happen) then she's not a true friend..there for you don't need her.
In your eyes this Kate girl is like a queen to you guys...ask yourselves why? its pretty much stupid to impress people, just live for the moment..it'll make you sooo much more happier then being popular
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im 14/f 9th grade never had a boyfriend.
there's this guy that really likes me. he's always asking how i feel if i seem sad he asks me if im okay and whats on my mind. i'm friends with him but i never really thought of us as anything other than friends. i really want a boyfriend because i want to know how it feels, but then again i don't want to just date someone then break up with them in like a month because i feel no chemistry between us. but on the other hand i'm afraid of not having my first boyfriend until im like 20. i know it doesnt matter what age but i just want to experience it young so i know what its like...so with you knowing all this do you think i should go out with him or no? thanks soo much for answering. (link)
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Hmmm...well don't think that you need a bf right now. Its sounds like you in this guy are pretty good friends so don't ruin that over just "wanting" something that might not even be there. But i would say if you havn't really wanted this guy as anything more before, when/if you have anything more...it would be that great and you will just want to be friends again, which is sadly hard to get back :/
But i hope you figure out everything and update me sometime, if you want to about this sitt. :)
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Ok, so i met a girl at a concert on saturday and we danced a little bit and hooked up. the thing is i dont know much about her at all. all i know is that she goes to a catholic school near me, and her name. she lives a little far away, but she gave me her number. should i bother to stay in touch? (link)
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I would call her a few times and just see what happens.
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16/f-- okay. So I started hanging out with a guy from another school (17) a few weeks ago. He had a girlfriend that he didn't want to be with. He was only with her because he didn't want to dump her before prom. We started spending a lot of time together, and he told me he fell for me. He dumped her, but told her he'd still go to prom with her. He was also going to be taking me to my prom. Now, we have a lot of mutual friends, and they all told me what a great, wonderful, nice guy he was, so I let myself really start to like him. He told me how amazing I am and how I mean a lot to him. Then, when he went to his prom with his ex, he ended up getting back together with her. We didn't talk much for awhile, because he felt super bad, and I was hurt. But he was still going to my prom with me. So we went, and it was a little awkward at first, then it got fun. But he told one of our mutual friends that he wishes he would have chosen me. Now, he tells me he still wants to stay close to me. He came to my house last night to talk. He told me how unhappy he was with his girlfriend. He said that he would have hated himself if he didn't give her another chance (Which I completely understand). He said that she didn't change though, and he just looked at me for a minute and said that he was an idiot, and that he can't believe he messed everything up. Then he hurried up and changed the subject.
Now, I had to leave out some details to the story to make this a reasonable length, so those are just the basics.
A lot of my friends think I should just totally forget about him. However, I understand where he is coming from, I really do. And I can't help but like him. A lot. Yeah, he did some shady things, but I'm forgiving. But I don't know if I should be. What do you think I should do? Should I just keep being there for him? Should I totally forget him? Should I tell him how I feel (I'm afraid to spill everything because I don't want to sound desperate)
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Well i would just stick with him for a while. I don't think HE really knows whats he wants rigth now. If he dumbed his gf for you, but then eneded back up with her, and then once again wants you back, i'd say hes just as stuck as you are. He prob. likes you both..but i do say he likes you more. Just talk to him more, hang out if you want to, and just see where things go. Your not going to sound desperate at all..so don't worry about that. Your just saying what you feel :) don't be afraid to show your true feelings
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do guys like it if you kiss their neck? (link)
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um mostly yeah :)
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Im sorry if this is long. But, i like this guy ,and im good friends with his best friend. The guy i like, is in the group of people i hang out with, its just i talk to everyone in that group but like him. and he talks to like everyone but me.
Hes cute, and i would like to get to know him better.
But its weird, he treats everyone so much different then he treats me, like he joke-endly makes fun of them and like talks to them more. But never me ? i dont get it.
I dont think he likes me like i like him though.
i dont know , im just confused.
and whenever we do talk its for like 2 seconds.
HELP ? please
does he hate me you think ??
im sorry if this confused anyone, or anything
xox melissaa. (link)
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Umm i would say that he dosn't hate you. hes just dosn't talk to you that much, and he dosn't know you. Go to the movies or something with that group of friends, and start hanging out a little more to maybe get to know him more.
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so my dad really worrys about me and my boyfriend.and like we've gone out before..but my dad wants to meet him.and is like oh he shuld be afraid,like i know he is kidding, but idk how can i make everyone happy? like my dad wants him to come over my house and stuff..its just weird b/c my bf is a little uncomfortble..but is fine with the idea? (link)
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Well your bf shouldn't be uncomfortable meeting ur dad b/c sooner or later he will end up meeting him. Since you know that your dad is just kidding, then you really shouldn't sweat it. It may be kinda uncomfortable and ackward at first it will get better trust me :)
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ok sorry if this is long...
so i'm 14/f and in 8th grade. and back when i was in sixth grade me and this guy jamie really liked each other. but we always pretended we didn't, but we both knew we liked each other. then, half way through sixth grade he moved to hong kong, like actually to live there. we talked online a little bit and we both admitted that we liked each other. then during 3rd quarter that year i started going out with this guy ben. well, school in hk wasn't working out for jamie, so he came back for 4th quarter. but i was still going out with ben then, so jamie stopped flirting with me. but i dumped ben before jamie went back to hong kong, and then we flirted. so anyway, during 7th grade i talked to jamie a little bit and we both play tennis, so he said that over the summer we should play tennis together. well i forgot about it, but over the summer i got a call from him about "taking me up on that tennis match". so we played tennis and then he asked me to go to a movie with him, then he went back to hong kong. so then this year, he came back here for a week for his friend's bar mitzvah. he kind of talked to me a little, but very, very little. i think he liked me over the summer (maybe) but he's coming back this summer and i want to know what i should expect. i am willing to have a long distance relationship with him, but what should i do about it? call him when he's in town? we go to the same country club, so i'll see him at tennis, but i really want to have a relationship with him. what should i do? thanks so much (link)
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WOW. a lot of moving back and forth. Thats really hard. I would say that if he is actually going to stay were you live for a while go ahead and go for it. You both like eachother but the whole moving thing has effected both of your emotions. I would say that he would still like you. Call him when he gets home and be like so i say we have a rematch. Then hopefully you'll be able to play some tennis - which like last time could lead to the movies and etc.
But yeah i would say as long as hes staying and not going back to Hong Kong, go for him. Things maybe a little weird at frist b/c time does change people and feelings. Moving can be pretty hard expecially for someone still kinda youngish
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so my bf and i really like eachtother and he's really sweet. yesterday he actually had the guts to say to my face that he didn't know how to make out.etc. and i really want to with him..its just he is very shy. idon't know how to get him out of his shell and just make out with me already..he said he wanted to..and i told him theres nothing to worry about..but do you have any idea's how to make him not shy? (link)
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just kiss him :) thats my only advie for that
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i like this guy & he's only in one of my classes. yesterday, i was doing small talk with him. & today HE talked to me! and i was like omgg. and i REALLY really like him.
well, gosh, i flirt so much! i make eye contact and smile at him and he always says like sorry to me and i think it's adohhrablee (link)
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umm...that really isn't a "step" goodness honey just ask him if he as aol, and then get his name :) its not that bad, i swear :)
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How can you tell if you are in love with someone?
Thanks!
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you'll just know ;)
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f/14 i just broke up with my boyfriend last night because yesterday this guy that i have been liking way before me and this dude hooked up told me that he wanted to go out with me i said no because you are stupid!!!! because the time when i asked him out he told me no because he thought i was crazy but the real reason was that i already had a boyfriend and i practice being faithful so i didnt want so tell him yes while i was still going out with my boyfriend so today i want to go walk around there and get things steaight but i dont know exactly what to say to him????? (link)
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Well if i were you i would just be like hey, do you still want to go out with me? And if he says yes, then be like ok well so do i. I'm sorry about the other night and calling you stupid but i had a bf at the time, and now i don't. So i would really like to go out with you :)
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hi i am 13 years old and i need advice because i need a date to the school dance i am trying to impress this one really cute boy but he doesnt notice me and im acting myself i mean i really like this boy ever since the first day o school all hes interested in is popular girls and im popular and pretty because alot of people tell me but i really want to go with him but hes just interested in girls with big boobs and stuff like that help me please.
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well just talk to him, an just go ahead and ask him. You'll never know what he thinks unless you ask. Most guys can be pretty dumb and actually like you and totaly act like thy don't. You just have to ask and see what he says
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Dear Everyone,
how can you tell a guy likes you. i know i should just ask him but i dont really want to unless im sure he actually does.
signs that he likes me?
1. he IMs me first[before i used to IM first]
2. he has nicknames for me [which no one else has]
3. his default pic on his myspace is of me and him together
4. he plays around with me by holding my hand, sitting on my lap, messing with my hair, ect.
5. out of all his friends that are girls, he pays the most attention to me
6. he constantly wants to hang out together and when i have to go he begs me to stay[lol he will hold on to me and not let me go!]
7. he will make certain remarks; did i ever tell you how much i love you?
8. he shares his secrets with me that he has told no one else
9. he hugs me from behind
10. we always get mistaked for being a couple
[the other day a guy came up to me and said someone told him that my friend and i were "together". and when i asked him who told him that he wouldnt tell me. he said he forgot.]
but see the problem with all of this is that i used to like him then i told him and it was a disater because the feelings werent returned. and then i stopped liking him and now i do again. so im not sure about this one.
sincerly,
Emily Williams (link)
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yeah i would deff. say he likes you
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