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well i like this boy in my class and he said he liked me so i told him that i like him too and then i was sick for a week and the day i go back to school all my friends run up to me and tell me that he told "B" he liked her so i asked him wat was up and he said he likes us BOTH so out of jealousy i've been rude to her and yesterday he asked if i still liked him (even though he still likes "B")and i blurted out NO!! PLEASE HELP AND THANX
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massie girl♥ (link)
simple go back to him & tel him the truth other wise if u keep treatin "b" like poo & she finds out why she will probly trie to go out with him too. so my advice is tell him you wana go out with him befor "b" gets him


okey so it's not like i've never been kissed. i have. not a REAL one though. i've done just a couple seconds on the lips and everything but i've never made out. and quite frankly, i'm extremely afraid of it. but then again i REALLY REALLY want to. so my question is, Is it really that simple? do you just go with the flow once you get into it? And do guys ever judge you about your kissing skills? (link)
this might sound stupid but guys are too busy worryin if THEY are gd enough to notice if your not so gd so it dont realli matter ( plus if the guy really likes u then it wont matter)


i have known this girl for several years, and she is who i consider my best friend. everyone since we met has assumed that we were dating, even going to get married. we have dealt with this sort of thing from the get-go. The wierd thing is, she seems to be everything i could ever want in a girl, but i had never thought of her that way.
Lately though, those type of thoughts (us actually dating) have been floating thru my mind frequently.
When i look at her, i see not just my friend, but a very insanely beautiful woman. I dont want to ruin a friendship, but i do not know what to do!!!
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i would guess that since she is your best friend & that you talk to her about anything? tell her how u feel & see what she thinks. reassure her that you wont be heart brokken if she dont like you in that way (even if you will) cos that means that you will get that truth out of her


well i've been going out with this guy. but we havent really gone on a date yet just homecomming so were boy friend and girl friend he says. so i'm going x-mas shopping soon and i want to get him something. cause we've kissed once at homecomming and it was only a peck. so i dont want to give him a gift thats not good enough or well idk, what do u think a guy likes? he's in cross country. and i dont think he wheres watches. plez help. thanks a lot. (link)
err let me think... boys like gadgets so i'll give you a syt wich has loads of stuff on it www.iwantoneofthose.com errrmmm or mebbe somthing like link jewlery (2 peice set that means one for you one for him that kinda thing)


so there's this guy that i am really into. we'll call him steve. i think he likes me... but not more than a friend. probably not even that much cuz we barely talk. whenever i'm around him i freeze up. how do i keep myself from freezing up and start dropping hints???

one more thing... one of his best friends is one of my best friends, we'll call him Joe. i told Joe that I like steve. but i don't want joe to go ask steve if i like him cuz that's the immature way of doing it. i did that in like 6th grade and it never works. how can i use him to find out??? that is... if i need to use him to find out. (link)
simple just act like a friend around him as if there is no difference & when you feel comfortable then start dropping hints like whenever you see him give him a smile or if you see him in the hallway stop & talk to deliberatly (not if he's busy tho because he might find that anoying


Hey!!!

I have a question. I am a girl and I wanted to know how to ask a guy out??? Please help me...


signed
confesed

P.S. All of the guys out there, is it easy to ask a girl out? Do guys ask a hirl out right away??? (link)
first things first, boys find it hard too cos girls r like wolves beautifull, deadly & hang around in packs & you aproach 1 then the entire gang start eating at you making fun of u untill there is nothing left to make fun of and all there is left to do is crawl away feeling like shit. sos i was getting a bit carried away then. no lads dont go right away. but atleast your willing to admit it aint easy well there r 3 ways to ask a lad out:
1. you go straight ahed & ask in there face infront of their friends
2.you catch them alone & ask to the face (difficult)
3.you ease it on like "i was wonderin if you would like to ... you no..... get some cofee or owt like dat if your not too busy"


Hey!

Like a month ago, my friend Paul told me he thought my friend Victoria was just a little hot. I said, oh, but I like him. Seriously, I love him I think. I am 13, but I do. I have had many boyfriends, but somethings special about him.

At this dance Friday, Paul was like I am going to ask Victoria to dance. Victoria is like my best friend too. I pretended I told victoria but I didnt, then I told Paul she was like "Eww."

So now apperently he really likes her. I have been preteneding to try and hook them up, just to talk to Paul. Paul and I talk on the phone, but it is always about Victoria! I get in troble in english and math, always because I am showing off for Paul.

I try and show off, like I say, "Paul you might now like Victoria, she hasnt kissed anyone." Then he said, Dont worry, she will get kissed if you get her to go out with me.


Victoria doesnt really like him. She might go out with him, because I think she knows I like him. Victoria and I are friends and all, almost best friends, but we try to be better then one another.

Im not sure what to do. Should I keep talking bad about Victoria? I rather Paul then Victoria though, because Vicotoria and I are that great of friends! (link)
well if paul is the same age as you then the chances r that he's not goin to marry her sonn so you shud let them date & see hopw it goes & if victoria dumps him then you could be there to pick up the pieces


I am retyping this question cause last time it was way too big and no one answered.
I had this girl. At the beginning it was all fine till I fell deep. Way too deep. I did everything for her and I was willing to do so much more. And when I say everything, use your imagination, I mean EVERYTHING.
Anyways, after 2 months she dumped me and I know I love her. Did I push her away? Did I reak her out? Did I express strong feelings too early? I did not tell her that I love her, but trust me, she knows it. Of course I want her back, no matter how long will it take. Just as long as she will end up in my arms again. Every second I spend away from her sucks. But If I have to keep a distance so I will. What do you suggest I should do?
She hasn t told me she does not want me, she told me all this lame excuses why we cant be together. I practically begged her to tell me she no longer wants me and she just wouldn t. Was she being kind or something? Was she being honest? (link)
now this might not be gd advice but you need to find owt y she dumped you, if she sed she still wants 2 be friends then tell her that your her friend & that you 2 can talk about anything or you could 4get about her cos if she really cared 4 u she would come after you


I'm going out with this guy, and he lives in Michigan while I live in Pennslyvania.
I wanna see him, but he doesnt get his drivers license until either this or next summer [i forget]. Does anyone know how I can see him before that??? (link)
this might not be brilliant but ask him to get a webcam & u get one, or you cloud convince ur parents to go on vacation there & arrange to meet him


OKay, so theres this kid who seemed really into me, and he calls me and stuff, not like long convos but calls me sometimes. and he talks to me online. but like in school its like he doesnt know me & i want to get him to notice me even more and get him to know that i like him. but im not a very forward person so it cant be like drastic things lol. please help (link)
go up 2 him & introduce your self & if he ignors you still then dont even give him your time


Well I have alot of friends. And well whenever I'm interested in someone.. the guy is realyl shy to talk to me.. because usually id be around friends..where id just be silly and fool around with them you know? so that sorta intimidates the guys...wher they dont talk to me... and HOW CAN I MAKE MYSELF look .. i dunno.. lol.. friendlier?!??! LOL... so i wnot scare them with my sarcasm..or anyhting??.
i need help.
[14yr femala//10th grade] (link)
simple if you think a gur that likes you is in da room then give him a few chances to catch you on your own like say "i need the toilet" & walk past him with out your friends or summate like that & if he really likes you then he will ask you out about the 3rd day of this techneque


It has been about three years now, and I cannot get over my ex boyfriend. I don't know what to do anymore. The last couple of weeks were perfect. I thought I finally got over him when we stopped talking for a while, but we started talking yesterday and I realized that I'm not over him. He hurt me so many times. He did really messed up things and I need to get over him. And I feel as though I'm getting there until he calls or messages me. I already locked up all of his things and through away memories. I need to get over him, what else do I do??
:( (link)
tell him you still hav feelings & let you 2 sort it out cos if he keeps calling u that means either he wants to be with you but thinks you dont OR that he still wants to be friends & that means you can talk to him about anything


one time me and this boy I liked were one on one
at my house on my trampoline.
He said " you used to like me didnt you?"
and Im like "yeah" [which was akward enough]
then he said " i used to like you "
2 seconds later , he says " just kidding"
whats the deal? (link)
Some boys can be bas*erds
(this cumin frm a lad)


How do you show a guy that you're interested? (link)
simple be honest. ye u can try & flirt with him butb these days lads dont no if lasses r serious cos sum do it to take the piss so i would say flirt with him ( give him looks/winks/ smile when you see him) & after a month go up front & tell him. sos if that isn't gd enough but i dint hav much to go by




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