Question Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 1:17 pm
so there's this guy that i am really into. we'll call him steve. i think he likes me... but not more than a friend. probably not even that much cuz we barely talk. whenever i'm around him i freeze up. how do i keep myself from freezing up and start dropping hints???
one more thing... one of his best friends is one of my best friends, we'll call him Joe. i told Joe that I like steve. but i don't want joe to go ask steve if i like him cuz that's the immature way of doing it. i did that in like 6th grade and it never works. how can i use him to find out??? that is... if i need to use him to find out.
pssst, if youre wondering, how can i tell him i like him and how can i tell if he likes me? heres my advice: dont tell him, SHOW him!
how DO you show him you like him? Smile, say hi, ask about stuff he cares about, laugh at his jokes, compliment him, make eye-contact, sit near him, use his name while talking to him, call, e-mail, and dont be afraid to act happy when he`s around. You dont want to come on tooooo strong, but you want to let him know that is he puts his lunch tray next to yours, you wont leave---you`ll smile. [:
Okay. Now how can you tell if he likes you back? Notice his behavior in return. Some guys flirt with everybody, so its hard to be sure when they like a particular girl. others are shy even when their hearts are pounding.
Usually, though, when a guy likes you, he looks at you, smiles, says hi, compliments you, laughs at your jokes, emails back, calls, and pays attention to you.
Its happening? Excellent! Enjoy his company. Or go ahead and ask him out.
Uh-oh, youre sending i-like-you signals, but getting none back? Hang on to your pride, & move on. there are millions of other guys.
Boy4gd answered Wednesday November 22 2006, 5:29 pm: simple just act like a friend around him as if there is no difference & when you feel comfortable then start dropping hints like whenever you see him give him a smile or if you see him in the hallway stop & talk to deliberatly (not if he's busy tho because he might find that anoying [ Boy4gd's advice column | Ask Boy4gd A Question ]
xJESSICA answered Wednesday November 22 2006, 4:30 pm: I would have Joe start a convo with Steve . . . like have Joe say something like " man what do you think about her, she's a wonderful girl".And when you find out from Joe that Steve likes you too just start being yourself around him. && try not to giggle alot infront of him because you dont want to seem annoyying right away.
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