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Situation of an odd nature
i have known this girl for several years, and she is who i consider my best friend. everyone since we met has assumed that we were dating, even going to get married. we have dealt with this sort of thing from the get-go. The wierd thing is, she seems to be everything i could ever want in a girl, but i had never thought of her that way.
Lately though, those type of thoughts (us actually dating) have been floating thru my mind frequently.
When i look at her, i see not just my friend, but a very insanely beautiful woman. I dont want to ruin a friendship, but i do not know what to do!!!
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That's one of the most classic situations ever created. She's been right under your nose all along.
I know it's a big risk and you don't want to ruin your friendship but if you've known her for a while, chances are that it may work out really well. Usually, lasting relationships are created with people you have a lot in common, not someone you fell in love with at a bar.
I would recommend just casually mentioning it to her one day, something along the lines of "So-and-so saw us the other day and she thought we were couple. Funny right?... so what would that be like, do you think, if you and me were together?" and just take it of from there.
I think the risk is worth it. You might regret it if you never talk to her about it.
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well i think you should tell her how you feel. If you like her as much as you think then it shouldnt ruin anythink cuz true love never invades on friendship. TELL HER
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i would guess that since she is your best friend & that you talk to her about anything? tell her how u feel & see what she thinks. reassure her that you wont be heart brokken if she dont like you in that way (even if you will) cos that means that you will get that truth out of her
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