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Hey my name is alma im 13 love to party and love to give people advice feel free to ask me anything lots luvvv
E-mail: Alma.28@netzero.com
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Location: Bosnia
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Age: 13
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I am MADLY in love with this guy that could, well, basically care less about me. I told him i liked him and we have talked since then but he hasnt taken any moves forward. He is EVERYTHING i am NOT...he cusses ALL the TIME, is loud, rude and is a BIT too physical...(he plays football so i give him a bit of a break)...but when we are together in front of my friends or his friends he puts his arm around me and talks like nothin is wrong...I REALLY like this guy....I would DO almost ANYTHING for him....what im wonderin is..Is he worth it......or should I move on? Ive cried myslef to sleep over this guy...so he means a lot to me....I RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!!
~*~maddie~*~ (link)
I think you should move on,i know you dont want to cause you like him this much,but he treats you like crap and you deserve better,girl get ur ass up and find someone who can always be there for you..........
luvsss alma


i really like this guy ...and its not like he doesnt know i excist we talk alot but he doesnt think of me in "that" way at all ...he goes for a different type that just is not me ..i dont know if i should change for him or let it go because i am just wasting my time. And hes kinda a bad boy so im not so sure he could hold a girlfriend even if i got the chance ...what do you think .. help me out please ?

ill rate high for helpful answers (link)
Okay alot of people might tell you to leave him alone and move on,but my honest opinion is,just wait for a while and try to make him jelouse and he will like u sooner or later believe me,i really liked this guy and he wanted to be just friends but we became more and he started likeing me it all works out in the end,dont give up on him
luv alma


ok well I was the one who broke up with my bf, and its been three days and hes ready to ask out another girl! we went out for a month and a half! i mean im only 13/f but still... does anyone else think its weird? i mean im really hurt... what should i do? (link)
Not trieng to be mean or anything,but its your fualt you broke up with him,and if he moved on that fast that must mean he still likes you and his trieng to make you jelouse or his just trieng to move on.
much love almaaaa


ok so umm there is this guy i really like n told him that n he feels the same way but over a few days he changed his mind he said he dont like me bc of my age ..but i cant stop thinking about him he is on my mind 24/7 what should i do bc i love him so muchhh!!! (link)
Okay well you might love him alot,but get over his ass,if he dont like you cuase of your age thats just bull,cuase age aint nothing but a number,do shit with other gies and put it in his face
hope i helped luvssss muchh alma


well see me and this guy went out for a few days..yea i know it seems short but i really like him. i dont know what to do he ignores me all the time but one of the weirdest things is that he comes to my work to see me..? one of the things why he broked up with me is bc of his cousin she doesnt like me for some reason..please help and i rate high thanxs!!! (link)
Ok well if this guy broke up with you becuase of ur cuzin his a really big jurk and you deserve better then him if he comes to your work try to make him jelouse by flirting with other gies,and if he asks you out agian say noooo cuase if he broke up with you once he can do it agian.dont let him goo all over you.show him some girl power haha
luvs alma


*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
Well you need to ask him next time you see him,why he keeps dion that,I mean in person if u love him then dont ruin that just becuase of aim,cuase aim u dont know what the person is thinking or really saying,so i think you should give him a chance and if you really like him then just wait for him to aim you not you him and if he just doesnt then move on and leave his ass behind.


I love my girlfriend she means every thing to me and who would i no if she feels the same about me some 1 plz help me out (link)
ask her,and if that isnt enough make her prove it to you someway but not sexualy lol


Ok there this girl I like, and I really like her. But she dosen't feel the same way about me, so usally I just let it go. For some reason though I just can't stop thinking about her, just like every day it bothers me. The thing is, she isn't even my type, most of my past ex have been popular and athletic. Just like 3min ago I got asked out by some chick, and thats the third time this week i've turned someone down. Any adivce is need. Thanks! (link)
aww i think thats totaly cute,but if she doesnt like you then forget her even though it might be hard,take a chance with the other girls you never know what might happen,
luv alma


Okay. I like this boy and everything but he is like my best guy friend that I have! i like him so much. I'm not scared to tell anyone that I like them if I do. But I'm thinking about our relationship together. I don't want to ruin what we have right now. But I want more. I mean, if I told him and he didnt like me, it would be totally awkward!! Does anyone have any advice? I will rate high for GOOD advice!! (link)
hey well you should tell him that you like him,like always good friends become more and he might like you too and if he doesnt then move on and you gies can still be friends
hope i helped
luv alma


my friend likes me a lot.. and he told me he did and he told my friends he did.. and sometimes all he does is tell me how much he cares about me.. but then out of nowhere he stops calling me and ignores me and then a few days later hell call me again.. why does he do this? (link)
cause he might think ur not intrested in him or soemthing,and he might think his being anoying by calling you every day.
hope i helped alma


have you ever had a girl you really liked but she didnt know? and you knew she didnt like you like that? what should i do (link)
Well how do you know for sure that she doesnt like you?She might and if she doesnt then try flirting with her,tell her how much she means to you.a girl loves to hear that mushy gushy stuff,try it
with much love alma


i am only 13 and im ready for anything should i feel this way? (link)
If your only 13 and ready to do anything,its not right i mean wait until ur older and by eveyrthing if it means sex too then,not feel this way.


hey how do i get this guy to like me because i am in love with him and i cant stand it if he likes another gurl and i see him when i go to my cousins house and my cousin asked him what he thinks of me and he was like idk and then she asked him if he thought i was cute and he said idk soo what do i do! im like in love with this guy i mean he's like evrything i want he's perfect for me and i love him but i dont think he likes me i mean we flirt sometimes when i see him but thats all!!

signed --- I NEED HELP!!
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first of all you need to tell this guy how you feel,cuase you never know he might feel the same way,and believe me iv gone through the same thing as you and i know how it feels,i mean i used to like this guy and i was scared to tell him but i told him and he liked me too and now we're gion out and we're inlove take chances,you never know.i mean just ask him and if he doesnt feel the same way move on dont spend all ur life loving him when you never know if he feels the same way.
with much love alma
good luck i hope i helped




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