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Thinking about suicide? Think about this
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out.
Fine--but before you kill yourself consider these facts:
Suicide is not usually successful.
You think you know a guaranteed way?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But, both his arms are gone.
What about jumping?
Ask John. He used to be intelligent , with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leapt from a building. Now, he's brain- damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he KNOWS he used to be normal.
What about pills?
Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun?
Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.
You might too.
But...
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job- -but SOMEONE has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned?
Your father?
Your mother?
Your wife?
Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will NEVER completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the 4 year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight, and he may do it ten years from now.
You DO have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend.
Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital.
Call the police.
They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it?
Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later.
And we'll work with whatever you have left.
I love you all LOTS
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13 female. Theres this guy that i soooooo totally like... alot. He was in all my classes last year and he was sort of nerdy looking but totally awsome in personality. then over the summer it was like, wow, something happened, because when he came back, he was seriously hott. SO i told like one person that i liked him, and then she told other peple, and other peple told other peple who told him... and then my friend asked him out for me without my permission and he said no. Later i found out one of my best friends was still crushin on him from last year, but she's not mad about it. She's actually fine with it. Then Later i found out one of my friends asked him why he said no and he said cuz he doesnt know me that well, and i was like, we were great friends last year!!! when i went back to school on monday 2 days after the "asking out day" ugh, he said hi to me like nothing happened. its just usually i'm the one who always says hi. I really dont know what to do beacause i really like him. sry its long, but i really need help on this so please dont skip it!!! thanks (link)
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Start talking to him more and try to come better friends with him and after a couple of weeks ask him out or in a couple of days always try to make him laugh guys like a girl that make them laugh try to flirt with him allot shoew him you like him hope I hlped and hope it works out
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what does it mean when a guy says "he can't have a gf right now?" is that a way to let the girl down easy or is it the truth?! (link)
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It is a way to let a girl down easy but some times it means the truth but most of the time it is to let a girl down easy
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This is mostly to the females out there: What is the most romantic- meaningful gift you've ever received? (link)
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Well I will have to tell you evan though it sound stupid I would have to say a stuff animal with a rose and a card it is so sweet and none expensive
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Im 14/f and ive never had a boyfriend..is this weird...is it normal?? (link)
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Yes it is normal I am sure you will get one soon dont sweat it
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is it wrong to like someone younger than you? (link)
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no unless say the person is 24 and they like a 12 year old lol no its completely normal
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Boys like the fact of girls being virgins right? (link)
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WEll different guys like different things but most of them like girls to be virgins and if not I dont think they are cool with me i mean if they whrere my bf lol hope i helped and have a good weekend
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how do you know if a guy has a crush on you? (link)
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Well most of the time they will be mean to you and if you can tell they are trying to act cool infront of you. and some times not allot but they will flirt with you
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Ok.... I went to my best friends b-day party and my g/f was there and we were watching a movie and we started making out for like 15 seconds. Now i can't wait to see her again because i really feel different becasue we made out. Is this normal?
Please Help (link)
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Yes its completly normal its just pretty much taking yalls relationship to another step HOpe it works out for yall
hOpe I helped
Megan
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Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves.. (link)
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maY be you should just tell him like say I really want you to be serious about our relationship and all just tell him how you feel and if he keeps on doing that jsu tbrake up with your probably his first girlfriend so he doesnt know how to act or anything
hoped I helped
Megan
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ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this?? (link)
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Well hes probably just kidding about the fucking but I dont think you should but if you do take a couple of friends with you and make sure each one or all the ones that have on bring there cell phone that would probably be best
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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not. (link)
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WEll I think you should tell him
I always say
You never lose by loving, you always lose by holding back.
You never know he might be thinking the same thing you are right now
Megan
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i have a Question. The guy that beats me. His brother likes me and he said that if i do anything with his brother he will kill me. His brother is not like my ex he is a lot nicer and i really like him what should i do? Michy (link)
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you need to tell some one like the cops or soem one that can do some thing about it if you dont he might think you are doing some thing with his brother and might try to kill you even if you arent doing any thing with him thats what happend to my cousin
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I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help (link)
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Just tell you girl friend about what the girls are doing and tell her you love her to much to do something liek that you cant change the way girls feel about you or your looks
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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?
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NO its so normal I was looking at a Magazine and he was choosen to be the hottest guy of november month every girl likes him.. well most of them like him he looks really good for his age
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How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older? (link)
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I think 16-18 are some of the best ages but then if you move out sleep over and who evers house you want but 15 is good if there is adults it depends
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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
what should I do? (link)
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Well the thing is that you never know tell you ask her out evan if she says no there will be allot more gitls out there for you I would ask her out if I where you she might be thinking the same thing as you so go for it
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im 14/f a Freshman..my brother-in-law has a nephew which is 16-Junior...if me and him were to start going owt..do u think it would b weird to tell my friends im goin owt wit my brotherinlawz nephew?..i mean would that make us 2 related?...nd do u think im considered a hoe for dating a junior when im only a freshman? (link)
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NO I mean yall arent related by blood so it really isnt odd or anything now if he was related to you by blood that would be odd
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do u know a way u could practice slow dancing WITHOUT a guy or friend or anything like just up n ur room>? (link)
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Its kind of stupid but a stuff animal and move with the beat jsut hope no one walks in on you lol
hoped I helped
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i like this guy. and we are going out. but see he's the kinda guy who doesnt hold hands, kiss etc. like he wants to but i dont know if hes nervous or just is scared to. anyways ive made some moves but i dotn want to make all the moves. what do i do to make him do all that stuff. so hes not soo slow? ive even talked to him. and he keeps telling me he is going to do something. but he doesnt. im waiting and waiting. what do i do? and i dont want to dump the guy if you think i should. (link)
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Well once you kiss him a couple of times he will catch on just keep making some moves but like you said dont make all the moves just always flirt with him and all if you hold his hand all the time it will become a habit for him he just probably nervous
hoped I helped
Megan
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OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m (link)
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Well I think if she doesnt trust you its not worth it I think you can find some one allot better then her
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