ok so my friends having this problem with her bf and here is her question.........
ok so theres this guy who asked me out, and i just couldnt say no because hes like really really sweet and he did it in person, not through a friend...but the problem is that i dont like him...only as a friend, so now i have a bf that i dont like and the guy i really do like just now started to talk to me and flirt with me...so the problem is that i dont know what to do about my bf...like how to tell him that i only like him as a friend, but i really dont want to hurt his feelings, cuz i know he'll be totally heartbroken...what do i do???????
sorry that was kinda long lol
the same EXACT thing happened to me this summer.i liked this guy that was his cousin though.and he liked me but he told his cousin to ask me out even though he liekd me.so when he aksed me out i felt bad.and blah blah blah.but i ended up dumping him and he was actually really cool about it.i was just like "oh ya know i never see you and i think wed be soo mcuh better as friends" and he agreed.and if he flips out,then he obviously would be a terrible boyfriend for you.it all depends how he reacts when you do it.if he flips,its not right,but if he understands,then you guys should just stay friends.hope it goes as good for you as it was for me!
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i really like this guy, his name's brett, and he's a total sweetheart, he always smiles at me, waves at me, and we've hugged a few times. however, it seems like we talk less and less each day. i honestly do want to be with him, but he's a major flirt and i know that he wouldn't be able to stick with a relationship because hes not a one woman man. but who am i to say? i really want to hang out with him, and i don't want to be the one to make all of the moves because i don't want to come off as desperate. he's definitely not shy.. he's athletic, cute, smart, sweet, and funny. our lockers are right next to each other and we always talk no matter what.
help me out please. :] thanks inadvance.
My ex-boyfriend was like that, but we ended up being together for 3 months. You just have to be the girl that he wants to change for, like you have to make him not wanna look at other girls. Flirt with him a lot, and try to talk about things that you know he's into, cuz then he'll think you have stuff in common and guys like that. Basically it's a competition with you and other girls in your school, so just catch his eye, without being a complete slut, cuz then he'll get the wrong idea.
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I love my boyfriend, and when he gets released, we are goin to get back together, but in those 2 years that he is gone is it bad if i meet someone at the time???cuz im not gonna want to be lonley the whole time and ive been crying like crazy that there taking him away. But do you think its bad that i get a new boyfriend in the meantime?
You should talk to your current boyfriend about it before you try to meet someone. What if you meet someone and start to like them a lot and want to turn it into something serious? You could really end up loving the person you meet and then your boyfriend would come home from juvy and you wouldn't know what to do. So I would talk to him about it and think about what you would do if that situation presented itself. Sorry that wasn't much help, that's a tough question.
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I have been married for 5 years, and for the past 10 months have been having an affair with a man from work. I love my husband, but I know that if I tell him the truth, we will be over. My husband is very good to me. The affair is now over. I have been feeling guilty and depressed, and I don't know if I should tell my husband. I also think there is a possibility that I might do this again, and I can't explain why. What should I do? Tell him, and try to move on, or move on myself, and try to spare our relationship?
If you truely love your husband, you will tell him the truth because that's what he deserves. Put yourself in his shoes, wouldn't you want to know the truth about what your partner is doing? Whether or not you will stay together i cannot say, but I know lots of people who have cheated on their partner and worked through it. If you've been married 5 years then maybe you can work past it. But you really need to tell him, you won't feel as guilty and you'll feel better knowing you did the right thing.
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