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I'm a sibling,sister,Student. I'm a very depressing girl and i wish to change.
Gender: Female
Location: America
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Member Since: June 12, 2006
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Last Update: July 6, 2006
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im a 13 year old girl and ive had my bf for about a week hes 14 almost 15(im going into 8th grade and hes going into 10th) and we started going out on a school trip, so we were together a LOT, and on our second or third day going out he said he loved me once sortof joking and once seriously and hes my first bf and he said it more after that and i just dont know if he really means it, or if hes just saying it...
ive never had a bf before, and im his 2nd real gf
thank you so much
im sorry its so long =] (link)
Well it depends on how he said it if he said it while he was looking you in the eye if he does that usualy means he means it if not there is a chance he does mean it but he could not. Tell him seriously that you love him and look him in the eye.Then if he says it back while hes looking at you in the eye he means it.


me and my boyfriend just had a fight..a really big one, i screwed up i know. but i apologized
he hasnt called me in over 3 weeks. so i guess that means were not datin anymore?
i tried textin him about a week ago tellin him that i was sorry. he didnt reply, and he didnt call me back. i want to know whats going on with him sooo badly!!! i want to call him sooo bad, but i dont want to make it seem like im desperate. but i dont want to wait around either. i need him in my life..i just dont know what to do. and if i do call him..i dont want everything to be akward silence, i want everything to pick up the way we left it..i just dont know. help!! (link)
well maybe go over to his house or give him a gift to show him you really still care about him having like a cute note like im so sorry i luv with all my heart and i don't want you to go because of me. something to remind him why he luvs u so much


do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them (link)
Yes girls like it when you talk eye to eye because it means they are listening and you do the same so she knows your listening and it means your not all nervous and anoying like some boys are when they ask a girl out yes girls luv it when you that!


Everything's bothering me

My friend has become the center of attention; the one everyone likes

Where's Caitlin in all this?

All I want is one guy

Jus for one guy to like me

For me to be real and not fake

To be recognized by some of my favoirite people

If I could give up my whole life for just one day of happiness, I'd do it

One day of me knowing the kid I like likes me back

My friend just doesn't get it

For ONCE I want the guy to fall in love with me, not her

Everyone likes her

She doesn't even know it, but it's true

And what am I...

-Kandi (link)
Kandi I have the same issue i swear! No one likes me either. It doesn't mean your not good enough! Some day some random day a boy will like you for who u are not for what your not who cares if the guys you like likes your friend its ok! Thats whats going on with me Hey im staying strong! You don't need a guy to make you happy trust me! I'm single and i enjoy life! because you know what just when someone likes you and he likes you to doesn't mean YOU HAVE to hook up. Trust me you will get depressed and shit like i did but i found out once i had a bf and he was so boring i really liked him till i found out how he really acted i hated him so i dumped him then i got a new bf i like and he dumped me and it hurt me so badly. just relax someone will like you eventually but you don't NEED someone to like you. and remember BE YOURSELF NO ONE CAN CHANGE YOU!


so today my boyfriend came over to my place and wanted to see my myspace. he doesnt have a computer and cant see mine so i showed him it. there were to comments left by two guys both were my cousins friend and i only have talked to them once and he got mad about them. they didnt even say anything bad just\" hey life is good thanks 4 askin..
oh thats cool your coming to our skool i like that trust me your going to have alot of fun there and no im not going to summer skool.
but are you going to summer skool?? \" and the other one said\"hey how you doing? hows things going wich ya it was a pleasure meeting you last time ^_^ hope your doing great! \"

nothin bad but the first thing he said was i knew you talked to guys online and that you cheat on me.

someone please help me out! (link)
Confront your boyfriend tell him they are only friends and you would do nothing to hurt him at all tell him you love him more then life. Let him meet them and tell him there is nothing to worry about they are just your cousins friends and you don't even really know them. i hope that helps!




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