Hmm, about myself. Well, I'm sixteen years young and for my young age I've been through quite a lot. I can relate to many different people. Giving advice is one of three things I'm very good at. I'm a Junior in high school and i love being with people. I'm the drum major at my high school for marching band, and a starter on our varsity softball team. I hope to be a psychologist when I'm older, so I really enjoy giving advice. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help :)
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my kind of boyfriends dad passed like a year and a half ago and i think they r having a memorial for him this weekend.
he said he may ot be able to hang bc he has a tough weekend. and i asked me if i knew about his family (which i did) and i just feel so bad. and i want him to know im here for him but i dotn want to be annoying like eveyrone was to him. what can i text him or say to him so he knows im here for him? and he knows im legit, not just hav pity on him? (link)
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Well, losing your father is the hardest. Four years ago I lost mine. This weekend is my birthday, but it would also have been his. So, i'm having a tough weekend. I personally loved it if someonewould ask me how i was. When you talk to him, just tell him that you're there for him. Tell him its out of love, not pity. Dont be mad if he snaps at you at all this weekend, because that could unintentionally happen. Also tell him if that if he needs to talk about anything, you'll listen. Death is the hardest thing to overcome. Its always nice to know someones there for you.
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I have had way too many boyfriends to count. It's my problem too. Boys like me, and I like boys... but as soon as we start dating its like I pick out all their imperfections without meaning to. I'm now with my 12th or 13th boyfriend. He's really nice, but he never calls me or asks me out places, and when I call him or I invite him places, we never have anything ot talk about. He's kind of boring... I hate breaking it off with guys when they didnt do anything wrong. Is it my fault for wanting a certain type? Should I stay with him and see if things get better?
Thanks
Elise 15/f (link)
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Well, if he bores you, and you're not interested in him, you should break it off. Its not that either of you did anything wrong, its more like you guys don't click together. Most people have their "type". It's not uncommon at all. Just figure out what you want in a guy and look from there.
Good luck :)
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Sorry this will seem very vague, but I want to be in fear the guy in question ever finds this.
There's a guy and I think he might ask me out. The only problem is, I know for a fact it will only be so he can have sex with me, or he will try to pressure me into sex.
Now, I'm not asking whether I think this is what he wants. After all I'm being vague, that would be stupid. I'm pretty sure these are his intentions.
Usually I'd say no, but the only problem is I sort of like him. So should I say yes and give him a chance and if he tries to pressure me into it I say no and dump him? Haha help! (link)
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I think that if you like him and trust him enough to give him a chance you should, but make it clear to him that you wont do anything you don't want to do, including having sex. Or, if you feel confused if he asks you out, tell him you want to get to know him more. Doing that might be able to help you see what his intentions are.
Good luck :)
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So there's this guy I've been crazy about for like 3 years. We dated twice and even been fuck buddies. He's a total ass to me and no matter how he treats me I can't get over him. I'm seriously in love with this guy. But everytime we broke up, he dumped me and started dating some other girl like right after. I want to get over him, since we both saw it best we stop talking to each other, but I also want to keep talking to him because I don't want to lose him again. He says he still loves me, but I don't know if I can believe that. What do I do? (link)
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Well, personally, I think that you need to talk to him. Even if you both agree that its best that you guys don't talk, I think you guys need to sit down and have a long conversation of how you both feel. Ask him questions like, If you say you love me, why do you leave me for other girls? Things like that. You have a right to know, especially because you're in love with him. Just try and talk to him. It may turn out for the better.
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ok i am totally blushing right now. so i was at a local video store, but in a different branch than the one i usually go to... anyway so i met this guy at the cash and i kind of think he's cute... and i guess he thinks so too... well to cut a long story short as i was leaving after i paid the bag i had started ringing so i brought it back to him and he ran it through the magnet but on my way out i think he said "it won't ring again,,, but if it rings then i'll take you to dinner" or something like that... now i am not sure just because i was getting out of the place and my back was turned to him and i was trying to hear what my best friend was saying... i was toooo shy to turn around... but i really think he's cute... he looks a bit older and i don't want to act like an idiot or immature infront of him... what do i do next time... i am reallllly reallllly reallly shy... anyone? i mean i don't want him to like me for just the way i look... i'd rather we click on the same wavelength... any advice or how-tos with older guys?
ps i'm 19 and he looks like he's 27...? maybe a bit older (but not like toooo old) (link)
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Well, go back to the video store another day, walk by and see if he's working. If he gives you the same signs he just gave you, try striking up a conversation to start. Maybe it will end with him asking you to dinner or something.
Good luck :)
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theres this guy i hung out with alot during the summer. we had ssex a couple times but not every time we hugn out. he told me he like me, but he also liked someone els, and that was at the begininng of the summer. Now he alwasy IM's me, and we talk on the phone and he asks me to hangout without other people. i cant tell if he actually likes me or is just trying to keep me around for sex. I knwo hes a nice guy but its hard to tell sometimes if he only wanst sex. (link)
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My best friend is in your position. what you need to do is talk to him. Express your feelings. If you don't want to be just bed buddies, then you need to tell him that. You said he's a nice guy, so I'm sure he'd understand you wanting to know if this was going anywhere. Communication is important, especially in this type of situation.
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where can i buy gay pride items at a mall? like what store (link)
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Spencers is a good place to buy stuff for gay pride.
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ok so im a dood (obviously) im 17 and i skateboard alot and snowboard too i love metal and hiphop and to be honest i dont think theres a Homosexual strand in me (i'd just like to say now that if anything offends anyone i honestly do not mean it in the way that it seems unless i make it block clear i do NOT hate gays and lesbians i have a couple of freinds who are)
now then... i am the only guy in a class of girls and have been for a year now. all of them have boyfreinds and i am single and have been for a loong time.. at one point or another everyone of them have said "my god i swear your gay *Followd by a chuckle*" i dont get mad or anything i know thier joking but recently its been getting silly... i work for Asda on thier Home shopping and recently they have employed a few people on for seasonal summer work. theres a sweet Thai girl around my age who's basically asked me if i was gay. i asked her why does she think im gay (after telling her the story of the girls in my class) and she said its cos' your pretty.
I AM NOT PRETTY!! AAAAGGHHH >:( i dont think i am at least. i mean there are times were i ACT a little fruity to get a laugh an a half from everyone because i play on them all thinking im gay but thats very rare that i do that. hmm, im gettin a bit frustrated thinking about it because my second question is
2.) is it because of this that i havent got a girl freind?? i havent had one in a very long time and its starting to bite me in the ass a little now because i get lonely in class thinking they ALL have someone.. :( is it because of this that i am a complete turn off to girls? is it that they would rather have me as a freind? dont get me wrong i would rather be with the girls in my class sometimes because theyre all great fun to be around. i dont fancy any of them im not obbsessed with sex, i'm more interestedon what thier thoughts are and i mean it. i'v been told by all of them that im not like the other guys but is it because ime "gay" or because im so nice... im casual no worries most of the time i play guitar skate snowboard i have a bunch of stuff i love to do besides sit on the pc for a bit. i might have trailed of the point a bit so ile shut it now.. thanks for responses. D (link)
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Hahahaha, Don't feel bad, there are many more. My best friend is like this. He doesn't have a girlfriend, but he's friends with a lot of girls. He sometimes helps out a florist, so everyone thinks he's gay. My advice to you would be Don't worry what everyone says. Granted, it will prolly get on your nerves, but just have faith that you'll find this one girl who will blow you away and not care that everyone thinks you're gay. Hold tight, you're only in high school. And any girl would rather have a guy that was really interested in what they think rather than interested in sex. so, you're up one point :)
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my boyfriend now is still friends with his ex girlfriend he dated for a little over a year. he does small little errins for her, and texts her alot. he has her name tattooed on his arm...
i dont know what to do, i want someone else to give me some sort of idea. (link)
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Well, if it bothers you, talk to him. But, don't push him too far. My best guy friend is my ex boyfriend. We hang out all the time and I tell him everything. He still has feelings for me, but i don't have any for him. My girlfriend now can push me too far when it comes to him. Don't make it seem like you don't trust him, because pushing too hard can seem like that. Sit him down and talk about it.
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