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whats goodd everyonee? let me tell you a little about myself. im 16 i live in newjersey, most of my freinds come to me for advice and i love it. i plan on being a psychologist so this is good practice for me :) dont be scared on asking me anything, i will try my best on helping youu.

-xoxo, Juju

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So my boyfriend and I have sex, with no problem. But if we try and switch positions to where i'm on top, we have to stop cause it hurts. Many people do it, but i just can't. It really does hurt. Is there a way where I can be on top, and it won't hurt, or at least tell me why it does. Please help, Thanks.

He may be getting too deep for you when you are on the top. There is also a serious virus that can cause pain when making love. It can turn into cervical cancer, if left undiagnosed. You might want to talk to your gynecologist about this.


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Okay so like i have a crush on this guy & im starting to think hes gay.. he doesnt talk to any girls, his friends told me my crush has touched them in the butt, or tried to hug them or something... HELP!

1. Get to know him

Just go and talk about things that relate to him and see his reaction. Viewing his reactions to stimuli allow you to get inside his head and connect with him by recognizing his pattern behavior.

Once he feels you understand him, friendship and trust are soon to follow. He’ll come to you with more personal conversations, and eventually the topic of sexual desire is sure to come up. Remember, the closer you get to him, the more signs of homosexuality will reveal themselves!

2. Observe his eye-contact style

How does he look at you and other guys? Does he give friendly looks or is it an erotic gaze? Eyes truly are the window of the soul! Observe his eye-contact style with men in conversation and compare it to his looks at women when speaking to them.

Finally, when investigating a guy’s sexuality, look for most, if not all of these signs. And remember that there is no system that is full or fool proof. But, there is one for sure is that if you see him holding hands with another cute boy in a tight pink t-shirt, then he's probably a gay!


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one of my best friend i fall in love with him and i propsed him also but he says that he is not having feeling on with me.. please i need help.truely im in love...

you need to move on and stay friends with him because you dont wan him to be out of your life so just respect his decision and try going out and meeting other guys and stay friends with him.


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How do you tell a dude that goes to the same school as you how you feel about him and not be afraid to tell him to his face?

well if you really think hes feels the same way and your are 100 percent sure than you should hangout with him during the weekend and tell him. but if ure not quite sure then you may get hurt since he might not feel the same way. another way is for you to wait till he grows some balls and tells you.

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if you have any questions just ask.

-xoxo Juju

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Hey everyone 13/f I was wondering how you get a guy you don't even know to like you? I like this guy but he don't even really no me I have talked to him twice but he wouldn't know me if he saw me. He goes to a differen't school than me but I am going to his school tomorrow for a basketball game and I want him to notice me. The thing is is that he is super popular so that makes it worse. I really need help:) Thanks(:

welll maybe you like him because you just want a boyfriend because since you neveer hung out with him you dont really know him enough for you to like him. but if you want him to notice you maybe you should straighten your hair, put alittle mascara on and most importantly dont be obnoxious for ex. (laughing really loud)(tlking too much) beause guys find that annnoying maybe you should sit by him and look at him a few times and if he recognizes looks at youu maybe u should be like heyy do i know you from somewhere? or somthing like thatt. :)

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if you have any questions just ask.

-xoxo juju

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This boy I have been dating for a year and a half just dumped me. He has done this several times since november. He always ends up coming back. He thinks hes not good enough for me because he isnt doing well in college and is basically doing nothing right now. The problem is, I cant get him out of my head. It happened friday, he called me that night but i ended the conversation early. Then he called me twice on saturday but I ignored them because I dont know what he could possibly want to say to a girl he dumped? I guess I just dont know what to do. I know I SHOULD move on. but I kind of want to talk to him, but I will probably end up getting sucked back in. I love him a lot and Im scared if i move on until maybe hes made himself happy more than I will loose him forever or he will find another girl or something. Theres so much anxiety that I have. But everyones telling me its the best thing for me to be without him because I am driven and doing well while he doesn't really move on. Any thoughts or words of wisdom to help me would be greatly appreciated. Ive never felt this lost :/

aaww :( dont worry everyone goes through this. its the worst feeling in the world because you love him and miss him so much and you have anxiety not talking to him. i know the feeling. I honestly dont think he broke up with you for that reason because if he really did feel that way he would appriciate that your in his life not take you out of it, there for you need to move on.
here are a few helping ways to do it.

1. Delete him from EVERYTHING phone, facebook, pictures.
2. Focus on making your self happy and not needing someone there to make you happy.
3. Go out with your friends and try not to stay home too much.
4. Always be around possitive loving people.
5. Get your hair done, make your self feel good :)

and remember that you need someone who will never wanan let you go nomatter the situation.

hope i helped girly :)
if you have any questions just ask

-xoxo Juju

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so my bf and i have been gng out for awhile and everytime he comes to kiss me like french kiss i get all nervous and pull away and its starting to worry him. i know its stupid but its also starting to worry me..... any ideas????????

yes the first time can be veryyyyy scarey. you might shake and palms get sweaty, but thats COMPLETLY normal:) if you keep pulling away he might think you dont really like him and dont make him think that! i think you should go in and its will come naturally i promis.


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if you have anymore questions just ask.

-xoxo Juju

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Well anyways my boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago and we had been together about a month. And I really liked him yet I didnt cry when we broke up. But now I just feel like I need rebound or something to makeout with or something. Ive found a good guy clean and has no strings. Is this normal for someone to do?

SO NORMAL haha. you just miss having someone there for you. but i honestly think you should focus on loving your self and making your self happy first before getting started with someone else.

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if you have any questions just ask.

-xoxo Juju

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Im currently taken by a girl ,. and which I am a girl also . We would be going out a month on Feb . 12th you may say that not even long . This is also our 2nd time going out . This realtionship just doesnt seem right to me nomore. My feelings for her are not even like they use to be, and I'm not happy like I use to. ADVICE PLEASE .

hey, well personally happiness means more to me than anything and before she starts to develop more and more feelings for you i honestly think you should break up with her since you are not happy anymore.

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if you have anymore questions just ask.


-xoxo Juju

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I am 15 years old and when i was in 6th grade i fell in love with my bestfriends cousin. and he fell inlove with me. We have been on and off since 6th grade. and last time we dated was in august-6 months ago. yesturday i went to his house with my bestfriend and her boyfriend and we all hungout lots of awkwardness. but it decreased as the time passed. He put on a necklace i gave him saying nina + allen than the date. when i say we fell in love i mean in love-like the teenage love. first loves. you know what i mean? so when i left his house my bffl and her bf were trying to get us to kiss and i really didnt want to. but then he kissed me and i relized that i miss him ...again..still.. and this weekend we are all supposed to chill and drink and they are planning on us having sex again. (i lost my virginity to him months back)i know how bad this is but i dont completely mind having sex with him again- but i would really rather not at all. but in the end i do not want to date him, but i do want to hangout with all of them this weekend. just, what should i do? about telling him i am not ready for a relationship yet, and the sex thing. etc.. i know i dont have a straight out question but if anyone can find anything to say please helpp.

hey girlyy,
well i honestly dont think you guys should have sex unless you are in a relationship. and the more u have sex with him the more you and him will get attached to eachother and you dont want to be in that place so what i think you should do is call him up and just tell him that you dont feel like really doing anything, all you wanna really do is be bestfriends and if he actually still cared about you he will understand but if he doesnt, then forget him.

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if u have any questions just ask me.

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