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Q: what shoudl i get my boi for valentines day?
he likes hockey and music
doent like chocolate
i rate high

I think you should do something really sweet. Like maybe burn him a cd with songs he will really like. Maybe you can even buy him a hockey game ticket. I think he would like .
Hope I gave you some ideas
Good Luck
-Steff-

Q: Okay. So this guy is a junior and I'm a freshman...and he goes to my school and everything. We talk online, when he is on. And I see him at school and he like sometimes looks at me and stuff. He talks to me like everyday and like ever since its been after christmas break, he has like stopped talking to me. but he still looks at me and stuff. but like he has seemed like hes mad and I have tried talking to him online, and he wont reply. But one time I did ask why he didnt talk to me? and hes like i dont know. So I dont know if he likes me anymore and I kind of miss him talking to me.

Hey the same thing has hapended to me! I know exactly how you feel. I used to think a junior liked me too and we also used to talk all the time. Older guys like to make you think that they like you ...but really the jus wanna get "some". Its really hurtful...but I have learned alot from my experiences. I realized that I wouldnt want to date a younger guy either unless I really like them. I still catch myself looking at younger guys though but it doesnt mean that I like them. its just an attraction. Maybe its the same with him. He mite have an attraction for you. Im sorry that this happened to you...but in the end its just some lessons of high school and its the 1st steps to maturity.
Hope I helped
Good Luck
-Steff-

Q: ok me and this girl liked each other for a while and she just broke up with her boyfriend and we liked each other while they were going out and now were prettty happy and ready to move on with eachother as a couple and today i found out that we might be 5th or 6th cousins, were not like some rednecks on jerry springer it was completley unexcpected and unwelcomed i wanted to know is 5th cousins to close for comfort?
should we just be cousins/friends or what..

Hey!!! I think 5th or 6th cousins is no problem. Some people even get married when they are 1st cousins. You guys really like eachother ... so you should go for it!
Good Luck
-Steff-
Hope I Helped

Q: Ok here it goes..
I really like this guy, I'm 13 and in 8th grade and i really like him. the problem is, he's in 7th. but i see him beause our yougner brothers are on a basketball team together. I don't know if he likes me, but i like him and i want him to notice me. We have a dance coming up on Feb 9th or 10th, so how couldi get him to notice me. like...
What are some tips to get him to notice me and stuff?
.:rate 5's:.
thanks
Kate

I think that you should just talk to him and ak him about his interests. Try to find things that you guys have in common. Maybe after you get to know him a little better...you can ask him to go to the dance as frineds and if you guys still like eachother by then, it could turn into something more.
Hope I helped...
-Steff-

Q: My brother's friend Dan is wicked hott! and he always shows off his stomache to me and stuff when hes at my house. we flirt a little. He even was goin to beet up a kid that was being mean to me, him self. i really like him, and he may like me. the thing is that he's my brothers friend and hes 2 years older than me. would i be betraying my brother or would he even care?

Depends how old are you? If he is in a different stage then you then maybe its him and his hormones trying to show off. sometimes older guys like to do that. Its happened to me. But if you think he likes you then maybe you should go for it. If your brother loves you hell let it happen and protect you if anything goes wrong. If he has doubts than sit and talk to him and tell him your a mature girl. Send me your age and elaborate your stroy. Maybe I can further my advice.
Steff

Q: Okay, so there's this guy in my school that most of the girls would give their leg to date (not literally of course) He's one of the best skateboarders around, and was even chosen to go to this contest thing across the US... Anyways, he's so cute and he doesn't even know it. From what I've heard he doesn't like having a gf because it gets in the way of skateboarding. A few weeks ago he(Mark) broke up with the girl I have hated since elementary school (she used to pick on me before I lost a lot of weight and discovered make up. lol) This guy that I know from around my neighborhood is dating my best friend n also friends with Mark. He told me that he thought I was 'hot' and that he liked me. Well, he is also really shy. You'd think that because of all of this attention from girls and skating he wouldn't be, but he is. I was hanging out watching them skateboard and he didnt do anything but look over at me a few times. So, before I left I heard him say "No hug?" which was the first time i heard him say anything really. So i gave him a hug and left... When i passed him in school Mark barely said anything other than a "Fine dont say hi to me, i see how it is" so I did and my friends and I walked on to class. When I've passed by him, I saw his eyes on me the whole time we walked by each other and I know he did it on purpose for me to see. I can't help it, I like him so much even though I don't know much about him. Something about being not like the other guys who make those rude comments as you walk by. He's just... So cute! lol. Well, I don't know what to do anymore. I've been talking to him as much as I can, but I don't want to ask if he wants to hang out because I think that's his job and I really want to get to know him better. I also don't believe he likes me because i tend to put myself down a lot and I don't think that he *could* like me. I'm thinking of the worst, like, its all a joke or not true or something, not that he really does like me. Can someone help me with what I could do? Thanks ((I rate if that helps any... Btw, Mark is 16 and I am 14))

Hey 4rm wat u say he deff seems to like u. Maybe u should try to hang with him without actually using those words. I kno kinda confusing but wat I mean is like maybe ask him to teach you how to skateboard even if u kno how act like u dont but not to much so hell figure out what ure dooin. Jus hint around at the "hanging out" thing. Eventually hell ask u to hang out more. Hope I helped and srry if it was confusing. Oh and the inside is wat counts, Im not too confident either but if u except ureself 4 who u are and how u look other people wii too!

Q: is it weird for a grl to ask out a guy?

Go right ahead if u like him, go 4 it!

Q: my friend likes this guy and like a week ago i started likeing him to then my other friend told me that he likes me but i don't know if its true and i don't know if i should tell my friend bout it so i wont be keeping stuff from her but yea g2g buh bye

Ure friend really likes this guy. I kno u do to but I dont think u should tell her unless ure realtionship with him grows into somethin more. Ure friend will be crushed, I kno she will so trust me Jus give it time. Luv ya babe ( I kno her so people dont think ima luver person or somethin haha)!

Q: I talk to the guy I like alot on AIM and alot in school. We're great friends but it seems like I always IM HIM! I don't know if he doesn't want to talk to me but when I IM him we usually get into long conversations but he never starts them. It's always me. Is this a hint he doesn't want to talk to me? If it then why do we always talk up a storm? Pleae help!!

x0x0x Hopelessly Devoted
13/F

I had the same problem with a guy. I think u should be careful but still have fun with him. Make sure u dont start liking him because many times a guy acts diff on aim than at school. Dont im him everytime ure signed on but every couple of days is fine. Ask him if he minds if he sais no then have fun and if it ends up bad that means hes jus not "friend" material. Hope it helps.