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Hey i am 13 and the other day i was talking to my boyfriend and he was all like ya i might be moving out ouf the state next year ! i was so shoked i couldnt belive it i mean i really care for him and dont want him to move the reason it is is because his dads job so it is not really his choice Help wat happens SAy he ends up moving wut do i do HELP PLZ DONT DELETE THIS (link)
Hey grl!! you should get over him im mean its not like you are going to marry him! you might! but your only 13.just take it slow dont go striaght to the next guy you see! dont rush things. wiat till he tells you his IS moving



Ok well I like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and I’m well... kinda preppy. The only reason I’ve really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When I talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized I liked him. I really don’t know if he likes me because he's so different from guys I normally like.. And so different from me. Anyway we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and yea.. He always smiles and waves when he sees me and he is so nice. I mean from what I can tell I barely know him though... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now I have no classes with him... I’m really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyway.. I really want to talk to him and just get to know him better. But there are some problems... I’m pretty outgoing but I can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude... most of his friends totally hate me.... And most of my friends don’t really know him (and I wont tell them who he is)... and I have no classes with him. He still waves to me though. I need advice on how to like talk to Frankie and like really have a conversation with him or just play around. I’m pretty creative, but with all the problems I dunno what 2 do.... And I’m just not very bold when it comes to guys... please help me find a way to talk to Frankie! (PS. in case it helps, I'm 13) (link)
Hey girl! i'm 13 years old too! I also had the same thing as you! well what i did is tell your truly best friend that you know wont tell on any of your other friends that you like frankie and ask her to ask frankie if he likes you but tell her not to run up to him and be like do you like (your name), or you could try to get to know him better. Walk up to him and just be like "hey! whats up?" and talk about school, or anything. you can try to give him signs that you like him. flirt with him. this is just a thought but maybe you could switch classes to be in the same ones as him, but i think its to late! well i hope it works out for you but try all that!



My girlfriend of one and a half years left me for
another guy. She said if I move out the flat she
would break up with me but I moved out anyway
because of her disrespectful children and loafer
brother. She did nothing to rectify the situation
but instead got the first guy she met to move
with her into another flat. is she trying to
spite me and make me jealous or is she just
using another guy to help her pay the rent? She
says she loves me but she hasnt called me for
days now and we havent been out for weeks?
I dont take shit from her children but she is so
soft on them. What should I do? Just play it cool? (link)
You need to leave her. she might just be playin you. you never no! she probaly hes trying to you jealous.



when me and my bf both lived in tx we would go to eachothers houses well his parents were really protective of him like we couldnt be under the covers even if we were just hanging out with friends or just out talking to his parents and when he would come to my house my parents could really care less we could be laying on the couch with the covers over us that just didnt care but now that we have both moved when i go visit him his parents and they dont care what we do but my parents are always coming in and telling us to leave the door open so they can walk by and check up on us what the deal? should i tell my parents to back off or just listen to them and do as they say. (link)
yea listen to your parents it might b because you guys dont see each other alot and they think you guys want to some more stuff



ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.

but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.

thnx
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start to flirt with her, soend more time with her and tsalk to her, ask her to the movies with a bunch of friends and try to find out if she likes you and if doesyou should ask her out. also give her hints that you like her.



hey i know it's a little early..but this is when i usually do my xmas shopping..

ok..by christmas, my b/f and i will have been together for 3 & 1/2 months & i have no idea what to get him. he's black, he's into rap & football and stuff like that..a typical guy..but i'm never good with coming up wit something to get a guy so any suggestions would be great :)

thanx (link)
you can buy him a football, or ask him what type of rap does he likes? or make him a mix of rap cds!



Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
NO!! if=ts fine your not ready yet, you will no when you are ready because you will have met the ONE!!



I havent had a boyfriend in about a year and a half. My friends and family are always telling me i need to get out there and meet someone. The trouble is i dont really know where it is im supposed to go to meet theses said "guys".
Anyone have any suggestions on where to meet a nice guy?
Thanks :) (link)
Hey girl go to the local hang out.If your still in school you could meet guys there. Or you chould go out with your friends to the movies,cLuBiN, Mall,anywhere...go to.. parties..school!

GoOd LuCk!!!

x3KiLeE


well you see i ahve this friend and i realy like him but i don't know if he likes me and if he does should i go out with him.. i mean he is liek one of my real good friends and if i would go out with him and then break up what if we would no longer be friends.. i have no clue what to do i need help.. can anyone help me please


Confused me (link)
i think that you guys are really good friends things should stay that way. because if you go out with him and break up then out of a 98% you guys mostly wont be friends.hoped i helped!



i'm a 15 year old gurl wit hella regrets. this weekend i went to a party and got drunk...hella drunk! well when i get drunk i get really horny..and i was all over this really popular guy frum skoo! the gurl hosting the party hella liked him and i knew this..i tried to stop myself but i kept making hella bad decisions. the desision worst one was giving the guy head. well the next day hella people knew about it and are hella mad! some of his friends wont even talk to him cuz he messed around wit a slut and a gurl as low as me! i'm hella not a slut im usually hella innocent..befo that i only been fingered and never even touched a dick!i have no idea wut i'm goin to do tommarro at skoo...how shud i react to people that ask me bout it? wut shud i do how shud i handle this ?!sorry so long (link)
You should try not to get drunk cuz when you get drunk you get horny also i f i were you tell them to shutup. hope d i helped
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>3kiLeE


Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..

Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris

should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
i think its up to you if your not ready tell chris that im not ready yet but when i am i will tell you. you should truly do what you think is best but on the other hand i say no you siad you r not ready and hell understand even wrote i cude never break up with you so that gives me a sign that he really loves you and if he really loves you than he will wiat till your ready to have sex with him. hoped i helped.

>3kiLeE


Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
if you really love him then you should get married but you are to young to be married. to be married you have to be 18 years old or up. but if everything works out fine then you should get married.well anyways congrats!! i hopee i helped

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