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Ok. My boy friend has a lot of people who hate him and dislike him,he's nice, sweet and cares about people and people think that means he's gay! His friend told me that people started a rumor about him that he's bisexual and stuff. It ruined his reputation. I believe that he doesn't because he never told me he was, and he flirts and says he wants me in his bed LOL so, like idk what to do, it worrys me. See He's in 9th im in 8th. The homecomings coming up and i cant come :/ I asked him if he's going with anyone he said "ya with a guy tyler JK" SO i dont know.. what should i do? Is there any signs to if he is or not? I really love him, and he said himself he loved me two? so.. help?

It doesn't matter what other people say, as said below, but it matters about how you feel about each other. If he does have some feelings for other guys, and you love him, then it shouldn't matter.
But I'm guessing he's not gay because if people dislike him and it was a rumor, then obviously it was just a rumor.
Also, so what? gay/bi people are often more understanding and loyal and trustworthy than the average guy.
If you guys can't go to homecoming together do what me and my boyfriend did and just go out to dinner and hangout with each other.

I hope I helped :)

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ight well here it is, i like this girl like alot i might be in love with her idk but she thinks im cheating on her with this girl patty who i havent liked in 6 months and my girlfriend wont believe me that im not cuz rlly i aint i would never do that. and its making me feel rlly depressed like majorly and i cant focus on my school work. its always on my mind. btw im 15 m and lookin for a female to give me advice please, i cant imagine my life without her

Okay first off the dude below is wrong. I'm 15, and I'm a girl and I think that sometimes girls have trust issues because guys are basically known for cheating a lot of the time.
Just buy her flowers or a promise ring or chocolate or a stuffed animal, and explain to her that you really do like her and wouldn't do a thing like that, because of how much she means to you.
That guy said she wasn't worth it, but I know if my boyfriend thought I wasn't worth it when I didn't trust him, that would be stupid. Because now we've been going out for more than a year.

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I just started at a new school a few weeks ago. I know people there now, but I still find myself sitting alone at lunch and free time. I'm really shy. How do I reach out and make friends without being too forward?

Just be like "Hi Im new, can I sit with you?" or strike up a convo with a random person saying "hey whatsup?" I made friends with tons of new kids and thats what they had said to me! But whatever you do... be yourself! the new kids that arent dont end up so good!
Hope it helped! :]]

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I work as a service clerk in a drugstore, usually in 8-hour shifts. During this time I am either running around stocking things, helping people find things, or ringing people up, so I'm obviously on my feet the entire time. I am not allowed to wear sneakers or open-toed shoes, but by the end of the day my feet are killing me. I've tried wearing flats, vans, heels, kitten heels, and boots but they all were painful. Anyone have (a) any suggestions for close-toed, comfy shoes, or (b) any ideas to stop the pain?

Get those Jelly Pads to go into your shoes :D

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There is a lot of drama at my school. I hate it and a lot of people are mean to me. I loss like 6 friends last year and they are all mean to me now and I don't even know why. They said I started drama. But everyone doesd you know. How do I stop being so dramatic and being a good friend?

Just be nice and if some one tells you a secret, dont tell anyone, dont talk bad about anyone, and dont spread gossip. Also be nice! :D

Hope I helped

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