Hi. My name is Alissa-marie, by friends call me Alissa or lis. I'm really open to comments and questions, because i get them alot. OK, Im supposed to give some sob story of why im here. But thats not gonna happen. Because im here because i feel the need to help some one, and i like to do it. You dont like what i say, oh well. I am an up front person. I know how to beat around the bush and i know how to jump into it.(perferably, jumpin, lol)So, now u know a little bit about me. But this is all you need to know. Why? Because this column isnt about me and my woes-you can go to my live journal for that. This is about you. Ask intelligible questions, and you get one back. If you ask a dumb question -and i dont always have a sence of humor- dont expect an answer.**There is a wonderfull button called 'reject'...**
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E-mail: mizsweetheart101@msn.com
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Location: I live in fl but born in NYC
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Member Since: August 17, 2004
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if there are me and my friend babysitting for 3 1/2 hours is $30 enough to split for both of us (link)
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yea. i got 50 for 5 hours with my friend.
XoxO Alissa-marie
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I've got an EX who I went out with for about 2 years and we got together broke up got together so many times. We broke up over in the summer and got back together and he broke up wiht me that day. We've been dating around. I am like obcessed with the kid and I don't care how many times he breaks my heart I can't get over him and so he has been asking out like all my best friends and he is going out with a girl right now and he is sorta cheating on her with me and he likes me a little and ofcourse I like him..He doesn't want to get back together with me yett..I don't kno what to do because I kno he will soon but should I just forgot about him I mean he is a great guy and a great boyfriend and I can't see myself with anyone else. I don't know what to do. Please Help! (link)
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sorry huny, but i think that u should try some2 knew. what is the point of having a lust for someone who is using u to cheat on his g/f? sorry if it hurts ur feelings, nut thats what it sounds like. And, just how do u know thatt he hasnt been cheaing on u, and he broke up cos of that? u dont, and u cant jus say that he didnt bcos u trust him. the way this world works, u cant trust a man to lick a stamo if ur watching him. To many ppl try to cut corners.
XoxO Alissa-Marie
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Hey, My name is Megan, and i'm 15. I've always been treated pretty bad in school. I don't think i'm fat or ugly, but everyone calls me ugly. I don't know why they would say things to hurt me, and it makes me feel bad all the time, though I try to hide it. Today at lunch, someone gave me a joke love letter of someone I know asking me to homecomming. (The one who gave me the note hates me) When I opened it, a fry with ketchup on it fell on my white skirt, and ruined it. They all laughed it up, while a friend of mine yelled at them. I don't understand why people do the things they do to me, I try to ignore them, but you know, it hurts. I just wish people at my school would treat me like a human. I'm not mean to people, i'm nice. I don't talk about people I keep to myself...what is wrong with me? (link)
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its not you, its them. really! they just need someone to pick on u, and they think that you are an easy target. just bristle against it. instead of getting upset, you should just ignore them. if you have confidence, then it wont matter anymore, and pppl will start to treat you differently.
XoxO Alissa-Marie
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Hey my name's Katherine..a.k.a. Katie..I was wondering what are some good nicknames for me? I am smiley, cheery, happy, nice..etc...THANKS!=) (link)
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u should never try to hard to get a nice nick name. You will get a cool name after a while. Tell everyone to call u katy or kady (be ccreative wit the spelling) and let ppl decide what they like about u. i kno of this girl sophie, and ppl called her saphire. thats a cool nickname, but she didnt make it
XoxO Alissa-marie
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ok well see I used to like this guy named ray..we never really talked by I thought he liked me too but he didn't..soo I just kinda gave up on him..but I still sorta have feelings for him just a LITTLE..but now I like this guy named joe..and we talk alot and we're good friends and we have alot in common..problem is ray asked me out! what do I do? please don't say follow your heart...cuz its going different ways?! (link)
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ask joe if he likes u cause uve been getting mixed signals. if he says no, then maybe u should just give ray a chance. if he does, if u really like joe that much more- forget ray and holla at ya boy!! lol
XoxO Alissa-marie
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Im 14 my best friend is 16, we're both sophmores lately shes been annoying me, she has to be perfect in everything or she trys at least, I told her when I was in summer school this guys friend asked me if Id go out w his friend and yesterday she called me and said I talked to him about it I mean shouldnt she be keeping this I tell her to herself and then she doesnt treat me like a best friend, she ingores me and leaves me but when no ones their thats when she talks to me, last is when guys like her or even look at her she keeps saying it over and over like braggin...IS THEIR ANY WAY I CAN TELL HER TO STOP WITHOUT SOUNDING RUDE OR JEALOUS? If so please help me asap! Thanks! (link)
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be up front. tell her, im not hating, but u need to stop. u sound like a hoe when u talk about all these guys drooling on u. And um, your neglecting me! sumetimes u have to be upfront. Dont let them her just walk over hyou if you need to get a new best friend!!1
XoxO Alissa-Marie
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I'm 'sort of' a shy person. Especially when it comes to the guy I like. : p
I don't even know if you can call it shy..I just get nervous around him and just mummble. Whaaaaaaaat can I do? I never have the confidence to tell him anything, and I never know what to talk about. Help? : ] (link)
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Talk to other ppl, guys, and start to get your confidence. Talk to him, just small talk; hi in the hallway, whats up as you walk past him in the classroom, just the basics. As you talk to him more, you get bolder without really tring!
Hope i helped- keep me updated as u lose the shy
Alissa
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if ur invited to someones birthday party and you dont realli kno them but u have talked b4 awhile ago but one of ur other frnds is frnds wit them and she told them 2 bring u .. should u get them a bday present or wat? like if its a "party" bday party, and ur not real close frnds, should u? thnx i rate (link)
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bring them a prez. Find out a little bit about her, what she likes from your friend. You never know, you guys might become best friends because of that prezent!!!
XoxO Alissa-marie
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ok well I am Indian and my parents are like WAY over protective..and like they won't let me have a boyfriend until what? like I'm in colege or something!? I mean come on its on like old times anymore..Its like every Indian parent thinks that and it's just crazy...like I can't even have a guy come over...or like go to a guy's house just for FUN...even if they're my friends...HELP! (link)
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Your parents arent tring to ruin your life, even if it seems that way. They are just trying to save you from hurt. Believe it or not, your parents are smarter than you, and there is no way around it. You live in their house, so.... srry, but you have to respect them. But... you should al;ways try to talk about the situation, ask them if you can go over to your friends house because these other girls are there....just so that they dont feel as if they are sending their daughter of to a guys house with the ability of getting raped or something. Indian parents are not the only ppl that treat their children like that!!
XoxO Alissa
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Okay my friend well call her CH asked my boyfriend (IB) if we were going out and I didnt tell her to and he said no but the other day he told me that we were I have known my boyfriend longer than crystal and i was friends with him for several months before he asked me out and i dont know what to do i wrote him a note asking him if it was true but i dont know if that was the right thing to do i havent given it to him normally id call him but hes grounded because of bad grades and i am really confuse i love him so much i dont know what i would do with out him and i am in desperate need of help so please help me i dont know what to do...-*-Blonde with Love-*- (link)
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Girl, if you love him and he loves you, then you will find the way. Not a way, THE way. How it will go.Tell him that your kind of confused, and if you guys are an item, tell him you need to be his b4 all the competion!! (NOT THAT EXACT WORDING, PLEASE!!) Make the best of your situation untill you can talk to him again. If thats a while, kepp Crystal busy.......hehe!
Hope I helped!! Alissa
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