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I have a friend. One of my best friends acually. I care so much for him and i actually do love him so much i can't even explain, more like a very close sister or brother. One of the little things that i hate is that he smokes and does drugs. It's gotten to the point where i, myself can tell. We talk more on the internet than in person. If i was to confront him about the situation, i would have to do it in person...and we don't exactly live that close together. he knows i care about him.What hurts me most it that i can't be with him most of the time because we go to different schools and don't live in the same area.It hurts me because i have to watch him behind the curtain, doing things that i can't stop. watching him get hurt again and again only not being able to be with him during it. You could almost compare it to parents watching their children go through hurtful things, things that their children have to go through in order to learn from their mistakes.Things that a parent has absolutly no control of, what so ever. The pain I get , just from watching him stresses me out so much is sometime have to stop and cry, ME!! I never cry.This past two months my face has been breaking out in huge pimples because i am so stressed......about him.I have come to the point where i can't hold it in anylonger and am telling this to ppl on the internet who don't even care. Mostly people who couldn't give a shit about some girls problems.everything i am writing here means sooo much to me, ...to my life.I don't know. It must just be some stupid phase im going through. sorry for wasting anyone who read this's time.Bless you.seriously. (link)
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I think if you care about him this much and you really are worried about him, you need to find a way to see him and tell him how you feel. If you dont your just hurting yourself by keeping it inside and causeing stress for you. You really do need to tell him not only to help him but to help yourself.
-Hope I helped.
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well my ex-boyfriend sort of likes ALL my friends pretty much. and i have a feeling some of my frends might like him too... like ALOT
and i just dont like when people date my ex. it makes me just a little "jelous"
so please just give me some advice to stop being soo jelous... anything would help :) (link)
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just keep telling yourself that hes your ex and that theres no reason for you to get jealous because your not together anymore and its not like your friends like him just to make you mad. hope i helped.
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I work in a convenience store and have to deal with some very difficult customers. It has almost become a daily occurrence.
I do my best to be helpful but some people are really rude. This is stressful, especially if we
are busy.
Do you think that people are just becoming more and more rude or could I be doing something better in dealing with my more difficult customers?
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just remember 'the customer is always right' even though its not always true thats the way it has to be...especially if you wanna keep your job. theres probably nothing you can do to improve yourself if your doing the best you can. just always be polite to them even if there a pain in your a$$. dont let it put stress on you..just be like there d!@#s anyway! lol hope i helped
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My bosses are jerks to all of their employees. This woman and her husband own the resturaunt and they don't treat us right. The woman has made all of the waitresses cry at one point or another because she gets in our faces and yells at us and accuses us of doing stuff wrong or not doing our job at all. We have confronted her about it and she just doesn't care. (she has even said so)
The man is also a jerk to us. He's always making fun of us if we forget something or make a simple mistake or if we have a question.
It really bothers all of us.
Now they are telling us that they don't want any employees under the age of 21 to work for them due to the alcohol serving issue with us being underage.
If they were to fire us just due to our age, is there anything we can do about it? Like is that some form of discrimination since they knew our ages and the laws when they hired us.
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it all depends on where you live. but you could find out who there boss/manager is and then talk to them about it.
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ok so these two guys who i was friends with during the year are realllly annoying me! and i know one of them likes me.. and i dont like him back at all, ahh and they are always up in my bussiness and like basically on top of me the whole time. AND I NEED SPACE! im kinda becoming a bitch to them to give them the idea of LEAVE ME ALONE! but i dont know what else to do!! (link)
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mabye try getting one of your friends to be like leave us alone your so annoying. or just be like dudes leave me alone im not in a good mood ill talk to you when i am.
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Well I'm 14.
and I'm already studying for a permit and
I was wondering if you really have to be 15 1/2 to get your permit.
by the way i live in nevada so if that helps than I'd really like to know (link)
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I live in florida and i got my permit exactly one month after i turned 15 only because i was on vacation when i turned 15 so you probably dont need to wait till your 15 1/2
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When i was in 3rd grade i was ALMOST rapped, then in 6th grade, i was. The guy who rapped me was only 4 years older then me and he keeps calling me..hes 17 now and i dont know what to do. im scard but if i tell anyone i dont think they would believe me or theyd think i was joking..what do i do?! (link)
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well first of all why the hell does he keep calling you?? does he think you wanted it?? go to your guidance cousolor and tell them that it happened too long ago for him to get in trouble and ask him/her to keep it private..you probably just need someone to talk to to express your feelings about what happened..tell someone that you dont need this person to get in trouble ( only if you dont want him too ) you just need someone to talk to.hope i helped and im sorry for what happened
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Hey. I'm going into the 8th grade, and I am striving for a 4.0 this year for all 4 quarters and Final. I badly want to get into the Science & Tech program at this highschool I want to go to. In 7th grade, I didn't do as well as I wanted to, and this year I need to make up for that by getting a 4.0 for all quarters. How can I focus more on my school work and manage my time so I'm able to get all 4.0's? Thanks! (link)
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Just study harder, when doing homework and/or studying turn your phone off so you dont get distracted.Dont have music,tv's or anything that can distract you.If you have a choice mabye only pick a few classes with your friends so you are more focused in school.Hope I helped
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