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Hey! My name is Kenzie, and I am your average 14 year old girl! I have lots of friends and enjoy helping people. I like listening to music and playing my guitar and volunteering at my Local Humaine Society to get animals new homes. Hope you e-mail me and if you have any problems. Don't be shy.

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Hey. Well, there's this boy I like in my school, and I he may like me to, as to what my friend said...but I didn't hear the whole thing. Well, I found out her liked me when he was going out with his ex, so I didn't rush anything because I didn;t want to break them up. The later on broke up because she was cheating on him with 2 other guys, but no he goes out with another girl. I was so upset when they said he had a new girlfriend because I figured, why would he go out with another girl if he really liked me. I don't know what to do, and I think about him all of the time, what should I do because I really, really like him and I'm not to the type to make the first move!

Tell him your feelings.

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There's this girl at my school who's a total bitch and talks about everyone. She always says nasty things about people who aren't just like her and thinks she's so much better than everyone. Just the other day she was making fun of a guy that's in a wheelchair & in the hospital because he's having problems with his lungs. She said "wow what a retard... Why are we wasting our time talking about him?" like it was some big joke. People told her that was REALLY mean but she burst out laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world.

She also found out that me & my friend said something about her.. Now she yells shit at us in the halls & even drew on a picture of us in a classroom. I'm so sick of her acting so childish. We'll both tell her to grow up & get a life but she just keeps on doing it & dragging other people into it. It's getting so irritating and really getting to me.

What am I supposed to do? I can't just ignore it anymore.

She just thinks that putting other people down will make her cool. SHe isn't cool and she needs to know what other people think about her. DOn't ignore it. Tell her what you think of her and don't be afraid of she says back. That is what she wants in the first place.SOunds like she needs a reality check on what life is.

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there's this boy in my class that's really cute but i'm too scared to talk to him about crushing even though he asked me twice if i liked him I was totally scared I kept saying no i didn't have a crush on him I don't know what to do should i kick him out of my heart and life or keep trying someone please help me

Forget about being shy. Tell him your true feelings. If he asks you, its possible that he really likes you and wants to know if you feel the same way.

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My mother and I rarely talk and I'm losing people in my life to talk to . I lost the best of friend and I can't truly converse with a lot lot of guy friends of mine. Some , no a lot of girls don't lik me . I don't know why. I feel complacent about that and me but why do they have to hold stupid whatever against me. I don't even know if it's something I did: which isn't much at all.My dad's going to be gone for 2-4 month's; I have no one to truly talk to . All these teachers are giving us projects at once and I'm so unbalanced and stressedand unmotivated . Our school is messed up when it comes to this . A guy who is arrogant that I am getting over and I don't know and don't care what he feels I just want to know why he cares so much of popularity.Another guy I am fallin' for is nice and cute and in a way I feel comfrotable around him but I'm restricting myself so I won't be the only one in love. I fear what it makes you go through and I kind of know what it makes you go through . I just feel like everything is against me and I really need help . I need advice on how to deal with all of this .

First:
Don't take in everything at once. Focus on the school work at first then once that is cleared up, you can focus on getting over your ex.

Second:
I understand that you and your Mom rarely talk, because thats how me and my Mom are. But once you do talk to her, say that you really need to discuss how you're feeling and she will understand and try to help you as much as she can. I had the same issue last month but after I figured out how to work everything out, it helped me feel a lot better.

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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

This isn't wrong of you. Just because your friends like her, doesn't mean that you have to. Don't tell them how you feel if they mean that much to you. Keep it to yourself.

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HeY! i'm 16... (17 in 2 months) and i just started going out with a guy whos 20 years old... the thing is.. he thinks i'm turning 18... and i'm scared to tell him... because i dont want to loose him! what should i do?

Tell him because sooner or later he is going to find out and things could get awkward when you are together.

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i have like this girl at school and like she like hates me cause like she thinksim a prep wich i like am and like i want to like jump her but i like dont want to like humiliate her u know like wut do i do

Don't jump her, ignore her. She wants you to react badly.

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At lunch time i sit with all my friends and stuff and later on in lunch some guys come join us well theres this ine guy named Brian and sometimes he'll message my shoulders just outr of the clear blu,and flirts with me and other stuff but shuld i flirt back?? I really like him but he has a GF
I jst need some ideas please ill rate

Flirt back and see what happens

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ok.. so i totally screwed up talking to this guy i liked at skool... see im fine when i talk to guys but i get tooooo shy when i like them. so the plan didnt go so well to tell him that i like him.. and now i feel so embarassed because i was soo shy and im all mad at myself and stuff... soo tomorrow i was debating on weather or not i should go to school and i want to but i dont kno wut i would do or say so if i do go to skool and run into him what do i do or say? or should i not even go to skool? pLEASe HelP!! i rate high!

Don't be mad at yourself. Talking to boys can be difficult especially since you have no idea how they will react to what you are saying. IF you run into him, tell him that you feel bad about what you said and you can try again by thinking about something else that doesn't make you shy. Just go to school and act normal.

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hey i have 2 questions for you the first one is well ive been going out with this boy for about a year and 2 months and i really love him and everything but everyone always tells me i deserve so much better than him and im too good for him but thats not what i think hes kinda my everything you would say and well i dont know what to do should i listen to people or not? and second is one of my bestfriends used to live with her mom and then moved to my city and just yesterday moved back with her mom because of family problems over here and every one is really broken up about it and i was thinking of throwing a party for her to go to so we could all hang out one last time what do you think i should do for the party like what kind of theme thanx i rate high!

Do what you think is best for you and him. If you love him as much as you say you do, you will stay with him and see what happens between you.

For the party theme, you should do something that she really likes. That may cheer her up.

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