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I am a person who loves meeting people and giving them advice at their most vulnerable moments. I don't don't give advice for anything rather than my want and need to help people. I just feel happy when someone feels clear or has weight lifted off their shoulders when i give them advice. I am not saying I am perfect or mother Teresa but I can say that with life you get knowledge and the power to give someone advice on something using both your heart and mind. I have a wide range of advice I give because I believe that anyone with a soul can find someone else that needs help an answer. Technology,love,and limitless troubles are something that I love helping with. Whether someone is 14 or 45...I don't care. People are who they are. They are not perfect because they are indeed human. With that I know I have a lot of advice to give.


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This guy I talk to was talking to this girl and she said "Seems like you like natural white girls with frilly blouses." I'm only part white, and I dont understand why she said that. What does that mean?

She meant the innocent girl who is lives next door. Some girls take it as a compliment while some dont. I believe personally it's a compliment because she is identifying you as a girl who is not a slut or someone who is known for bad things.

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Hi,

I plan to take a road trip with 2 guys friends, a girl friend and myself. We are all 20 years plus in age. We want to take a camper van and we have the option to all sleep in the same camper van. If we did, us girls would be very modest, have separate beds of course and wear normal clothes to bed. But, I'm not sure if sleeping in the same room with the guys is ok?
PS We are all single, committed Christians.

Thanks for your help.

Hannah

Hi hannah im Hanna. I know you all committed christians. I believe that you all will be fine then. You all know what is right and wrong and you all are adults. You are responsible and as committed christians you wont do anything that isn't right.

P.S. Have a fun and safe trip
Lifescomplicated
dont be afraid to have faith in yourself like you have for god

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I feel like "Will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend?" is grade school. When you're an adult how do you know?

I've been talking and seeing this guy for a couple months now and I don't really know how to bring it up. I'm ready for a relationship with him but is he? I don't want to seem like I'm rushing him into it or if he even wants one period.

Ask him!!1 Look i know you like him but dont waste your time. Ask him if you are in a relationship because he needs to know that you are exclusive and cant do other things that he can. There needs to be bounds or else you will get hurt. Dont be afraid to ask. You really need to find out and i suggest soon.

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I'm 13 and I really like this guy ( I think I'm in love with him) and I know i like him for who he is and everything because we used to be really close friends but ever since he got a gf not so much. I want to know how to get his attention and become more attractive to him to get him to like me (hopefully more than hs gf). Help?

This love is called puppy love so if you like his guy.........go for it.

dont do it when he has a gf because thats just mean. Try to reconnect your friendship and then go somewhere.

Becareful because i dont want you to get hurt. This guy is also young so be careful with messages you send out to him. If you want to change your look....go ahead. You need to remember though...you managed to create a beautiful friendship with him when you were.....ooooohh look...YOU!!!!

lifescomplicated
nothing sweeter than puppy love

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ive known this guy since like 8th grade..and he was in 7th grade, and i didnt know him like REALLLLY SUPER WELL. But we talked and such, but i moved on to high school and didnt see him for a year. And now hes a freshman and im a sophomore. And we started talking again and we both want to hangout sometime =D we talk everyday..but sometimes i think the convos get boring..any ideas or good ways to talk to him? or bringing up topics to talk about and not get bored about it? We usually just text eachother..but i see him once a day after a class for a couple of minutes. He's sooo sweet! But I dont know how we should hangout? Like I know him, but not incredibly well. And he has freshman friends and idk if he'd be comfortable or it wouldnt be fun for him if me and him hung with my friends..i'd probably feel the same towards his. But I'm pretty sure this guy is gay, but he's the sweetest guy! I dont know what to do with him..we live like 15-20min away, but i live near a park. I want to get to know him better, but i dont want it to be awkward..especially since this will be the first time we'll hangout AS JUST FRIENDS, obviously. So what should I do with him? He's super friendly. Should I hangout with him alone, or with someone else tagging along? And where should we go? Or do???????? im 16/F thanks.

Maybe your conversation is boring due to the fact you worry too much. just relax and be yourself. Before you moved, you guys were friends and you didn't worry about those things. But now your e in a different place, so mix it up and BE YOUR SELF. If you want to make conversations non boring talk about something that you both like, Maybe it will lead you to something more than friendship. Or not. IT is your choice!

lifescompliacted

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okay this is kinda long but I'm just desperate for answers. okay there's this guy that I liked since last May and before I started liking him, he would always stare at me, whenever I would pass by him, he wouldn't look at me until I turn around to look at him then I see him looking back at me and when I told him on msn that I liked him, he said he had a girlfriend but after that, he would still stare at me so we spoke on msn a couple of times after the incident. thing is, he's confusing me because sometimes it seems like he's avoiding me and sometimes it seems like he's not. we spoke on msn last december and we were talking fine, he asked me if I had a date in mind for prom and I told him not and I said: do you? and he said: I think so, then today I decided to msg him on msn and we spoke for a little bit then I said something last and then he set his status to away and he didn't reply for over an hour then he signed off...i don't know if I should just get over him or just keep trying to talk to him to get to know him better btw, he seems shy. my friend is planning on hooking me up with another guy who she knows and I think the guy is cute but he reminds me of my crush...they look too much alike:S I don't know if that's healthy for me...what should I do?

Ok. First chill out! If you like the guy give him some space. Just try to hook up wiht the other guy. You know the sating," I didn't know I needed her until she was gone". When you hook up with the other guy maybe your crush will feel that way.If he doesn't then he doesn't deserve you. You should see what happens and don't let life keep you down. Destiny has its ways everytime.

Trust me and your friend. She cares about you and is trying to help you. She knows more than you think.

Lifescomplicated.

P.S There are many fish in the sea!

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do u wear a thong under ur swimsuit bottom. do guys like it?

Well if your that kind of girl that likes to have crazy fun and is trying to boost her sex appeal with guys yes. Normally though if you wear a thong under a swimsuit in the pool then chlorine will mess it up. But if you buy a thong for a cheap price or etc. you can wear it and forget about the chlorine. Second of all if you wear a thong under a swimsuit the guys won't be looking under water so you have two choices. Wear the thong and make it noticable for the guys. Not wear it but still be noticed by the guys. If you pick a cool swim suit noboy will be lookin at your thong.

Lifescomplicated

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