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MY NAME iS JAMiE.. iM 15 YEARS 0LD, AND iM A HiGH SCH00L S0PH0M0RE.. i AM N0T SiNGLE.. iM TAKEN BY THE BEST B0YFRiEND EVER .. 7.24.04
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ok, this is a really good question i know a lot of people struggle with. expecially at our shitty school.... anyways, i dont really understand why people call other people posers, or why they say things like "you dont listen to that band!" or "you dont skateboard!!" i mean, how do they know!!? why are they judgeing me and other people form our school!?!?!!? it makes no sense!!! i mean, the only way they would know you dont like something is if they were a crazy ass stalker person!!! PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
another one of life's dumb mysteries.. no one will ever know why one calls another a poser.. bc they think they're stupid or something? don't take it personally.. people who call others posers are gay


I am in middle school right now, and I don't have many friends. Like I'm not shy or anything, but I don't hang out with a lot of people. Do you think when I go to highschool (next year) I will have more friends? Or is it just me? (link)
i think you need to talk to more people and you need to be more outgoing. you might have more friends next year, considering there's three other grades in the school - but i think u need to be more outgoing. good luck =)


I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex do i tell him?or keep it a secret. (link)
if your like me and have a horrible guilt conscience, then i say tell him. if your different, i wouldn't tell anybody.. not even your best friend bc it'll spread around like wildfire. good luck ! hope u make the right decision!


i wanted to know if i should switch schools...cuz i have like 4 friends in my school now...n i dont wanna leave em...but i reli hate this school soo much..n its not like i am moving further away...id juss b switching schools...but idk what to do...cuz i love my 4 friends but lifes hectic in that skool n makes me wanna do serious stuff to myself...plz help me
-Jenn- (link)
i think that you should. if this school is driving you so crazy that you feel you need to do serious things to you to make you feel better, it's not the right school for you. if you're not moving away, what's the harm? if you go to this new school, you'll have the opportunity to make new friends and start clean. good luck and i hope that helped you!


There is this guy in my class [i like him]...i think that MAYB just mayb he mite like me...
Reasons Why...
*Sometimes I see him look at me
*He talks softly round me
*Acts tougher around me
*Smiles when i smile at him
*Trys to make me Laugh
Does this mean he mite like me? plz give me ur best advice!*i rate*

x0x Thankz...
Questions I Cant Answer (link)
you never know, but it seems like he does.. and if he doesn't.. he's being a big flirt. flirt back! maybe if you tell him how you feel first, he might feel the same way, and if he doesn't feel the same, then oh well! good luck :o)


is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance! (link)
hell no! it's not wrong. and im sure your not racist. my best friend is white and she's dating a black guy. there's nothing wrong with it. if people give you crap about it, then don't listen to them. but there's absolutely nothing wrong w/ people of different color dating.


hi im laura 15 female i need some advice about things/People in my school keep on makin up rumours about me like im a slag and i run away to get attention and stuff but the story gets twisted and i always hear about it from other people and people have been saying stuff about me behind my back and it really hurts and loads of people are making up rumours about me and people are starting to believe them.The thing i dont get is that i have never been nasty to anyone in my school before :( help me wat shud i do? (link)
yea.. that's high school babe. some schools are worse than others. mine would be one of the worst.. as with yours. you gotta toughen up. if people talk behind your back, or say something to you. be like "well you know what.. maybe u should ask me before you assume.." or "thanks for making me the center of your world"... something that'll make them mad. just defend yourself.. just don't get in trouble or anything.. good luck!


i have a boy that i dated. i'm so hurt by the break up i don't no wnat to do.I'm a 13 year old . as soon as we broke up he went straight to this little nobody that i hate i wish i could break her arm but it shouldn't be her i'm mad at the boy.what should i do to get back at him?


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getting back at him is an immature thing to do. i know it sucks to be broken up with.. i've been in a few long-term relationships and i've gotten my heart broken in every one. you should move on.. because crawling back to him isn't gonna do ya any good! just at least act like ur happy for them... still keep in touch with him, but find someone else.. maybe that will make him realize what he missed? good luck! :o)


ok there are 2 guys one is my ex bf and the other is this guy that broke up with his gf for me and well i broke up with my bf bc i thought i really really loved the other guy. and i found out they both like me and i like both of them and now kinda regret breaking up with my bf and like some of his friends and my friends are sayin i was stupid, but then others are sayin i was smart for brakein up bc they think its really obviously i like the other one more, and im just sooo confused...... please help. (link)
ahh this is a sucky situation to be in. ask yourself who respects you more? who will treat you like you should be treated? don't let other people make the decision for you. decide who you think is the more true person. hope this helps u!


My friend and I hatw this teacher and as a joke we made this odd screen name and sent him e-mails. It was the worst dissoin of my life. I sent one that was like "I hate your class I am so glad I am in highschool now". But my friend HATES that teacher so she sent and e-mail like" teacher you hurt me so the hammer is coming down...have fun in hell" I didn't mean for it to go this far. Now the police are in his room for a long time like every day. Thankfully I deleted that screen name! They made an anousement on the intercom about it and ever since I have been shaking and I am so scared/screwd. If I get caught it wont be for the one I sent, it will be for the one my friend sent. I was thinking of sending an e-mail to my teach saying like sorry it was only a joke but I'm not sure... help! I am so scared but I know for sure I am not going to tell any one but I need to know what to do! (link)
i think you have an idea about that being wrong, because it is. but, i know it doesn't seem like the right thing, but you should come clean and tell the teacher and tell it was you. the consequence might be horrible, but you'll feel so much better. hope i've helped :o)




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