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I am 21 years form India and my girlfriend 27 we had oral sex but I never had the actual sex, I dnt know how to describe, but I fingers her down many times and my spam was on my fingers the main problem is she got her late on her periods, this days her mood is so bad and she always feel sick and tired and have no sleep at all……I am really worried for her …IS she pregnant now?
when we were discussing about the results, she dnt want to have abortion if she get pregnant and we really cant have baby this time.
Please help me to knw her situation.....

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Your 21 and she is 27. You are not mature or old enough to have a child but she is. well at least should be. but not wanting it because your not ready, makes complete sense. try to talk to her like the other advicer had said. a pregancy test would be very helpful. even though you havent had sex, having your seman on your fingers when you were having oral may cause her to be pregnant. take a test to start with. then talk about your opinions and go from their. hope it helps. good luck!


okay so let me just start off b y saying i love my boyfriendd sooo much like i can't even explain it
but my boyfriend and i are looking at colleges this year and he wants to go university of vermont and i want to go to a school in our state.. CT and i don't know how we can make our relationship work thats all i have been thinking about and he's wants to get in so bad and i mean i want him to be happy and go to a good school dont get me wrong its just i feel like crap like how are we going to keep our relationship going when were in diffrent states going to school ?? if this has happend to anyone and they have advice for me on how to keep it going or not to feel like crap? that would be great anything is appreciated (link)
i'm only 18, my boyfriend 20. we have been together for only 2 months, we met in the summer. he just recently left for an away college. i go to the college in our state. he is only 5 hours away. he's going there because thats where he went before he knew me for baseball. i have to support him because i know he would do the same for me.

let me just say trust, loyalty and honesty 100%. thats all you need.

you guys should sit down and talk about how much you each will be willing to see each other. how much love you actually have. and how hard it will be to trust each other, no doubt. but can you do it? can you be mature enough to trust and love one another while you are apart. look at all the pluses and negatives.

if this is what he wants to do and he will be happy doing, you have to give up in order to receive. maybe you guys will make it, maybe you wont but you have to be willing to risk the chance. if u dont try, you might lose a great person and if you try and it works, you gain so much more. also dont ever listen to anyone else, neither of you can. i do promise u this, it is hard.

i spent my whole summer with my bf so when he left about 3 days ago. the 2nd day, i broke down but i didnt tell him because i want to stay strong for us not just myself or him but us. i love my bf and he has all three qualities and he says i do as well. i hope we make it but im 100% sure we will and so is he.

but the only way this will work is if you both want it to and how bad you want it to be. i love answering questions like this so i hope i helped you and i really do hope you two make it.


Hi there,

I've been haveing a problem with my school life recently.

About a month ago, I changed schools (I won't go into why I left the last one, long story) and I just don't seem to fit in. I eat with my peers, and I try to make conversation but they don't reply or ignore me. I've been told I'm the 'reject' for some reason.

How do I reach out to these people? I had lots of friends at my last school.

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oh sweetie thats a tough one well lets see how about you try out the things you did at your old school and apply them at this one if that still doesnt work...well back in the day i had a lot of friends (in 5th grade) i changed schools and in (6th grade) well i only had 2 friends and they werent best friends. Your not doing anything wrong, trust me. But please dont start acting like them just to make them happy. Sometimes friends are hard to find and sometimes they'll come to you instead of you going to them. Try to just help everyone out as much as possible, smile at everyone that you see that is in your grade (a smile gets you far). If nothing at all at least you have your old friends and try maybe texting them at lunch to keep yourself busy and not to think to much of the new kids and school. Also hun dont avoid the "losers, dorks, geeks" whatever you want to label them (i hate labels) because you'll realize that maybe their the ones who will be your friends in the end. Good luck sweetie and if no luck, i'll try to help out more k, at least you made me as a friend :)




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