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I am a very hard worker. I am studing to become a Psychologist . I am very good at giving advice. I specialize in relationships but i will answer just about anything. Do you need advice or help with a problem then i am here to help you. My column is for everyone young and old. It will be a place to express to me what you feel. If i have learned one thing, it is that you can deal better with a problem by telling someone about it and getting their imput. Never be embarrased you have nothin to loose with my column. I hope you all feel comfortable. I am here just to provide help and advice. Tell me your problem!
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last yr i was sort of going through depression, i was just sad and angry all the time, my mom never took me to the doctor because she doesn't believe in "pills", i overcame it, just by trying really hard by myself, and now im a really positive person and i love life, but i have anxiety problems and i stress a lot about the littlest things, i cant help it, i just get really anxious at every little thing, and when i think about it afterwards i know its stupid,should i go to the doctor..if i do i know hes gonna put me on pills.so i dont know if thats good or bad..
well it is up to you. If you do go to a doctor then i would ask him maybe about a phsychologist. Then you could lead a normal life without pills. And pills arent a bad thing alot of times they are made from plants ground up and made into capsules to help relieve symptoms. It is totally up to you though. I wish you luck. Hope that i have helped.
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Hello,
well i am really good at singing and i really want to be a singer when i grow up. Could someone tell me how i would get a cd out or any websites that have like a singing contest???!?!!? I really really love singing and i think i could do it so please answer back.
Well you could try contacting your local radio station and suggesting if they have a contest almost like american idol and if you could be a contestant. Or go to one of the singing contest shows webpage. EXAMPLE- American Idol, or there are a couple more. Just do alittle research. Wish you luck
Hey im a boy and 13 so theres a girl i like and she likes me. And im tryin to find a way to ask her out, because she doesnt have any messengers i dont think and im to shy to ask her on the phone or in person.What do i do?
-confused
Well i am a gurl and i kno how hard it is to ask a guyout so i think i know what you are goin through. Make some eye contact, then kinda drop some hints. If she has any friends tell them that you like her. all of us girls talk. If you are afraid just think about if you both like each other then never end up goin out.
Good Luck!
I have a crush on a guy who I call him jerry he doesnt like it what should I do.Should I say hi Should I tell him.
Well, if you have acrush on him then kinda make some gestures to let him now. If he is really stupid and doesn't get the gestures then just flat out tell him. If he doesn't like the name jerry then the next time you call him that and he says that he doesn't like it ask him what he would rather be called
GOOD LUCK!
I'm working temporarily at a pizza restaurant until I can find something better. I used to work at a grocery store, but quit after we went on strike, because I was unhappy there and didn't like the way the strike was settled. Anyway, the people seem friendly enough on the surface, but I'm a cashier there, and I don't do as much work as them. Not because I don't want to, but the manager wants me to stay primarily up front, and he won't let me make the pizzas yet even though I know I could do it. I've worked for the same chain about ten years ago. I'm the only white person there besides one of the drivers. Most of my co-workers are hispanic and don't speak that much english, so that may be why they don't talk to me much. I don't know if it's just my own insecurity, but it seems like if I ask for help with something, or I make a minor mistake, they are resentful that they have to help me. I think I'm doing a pretty good job, but nobody's perfect. I keep imagining they are thinking "I can't believe she did that, " and talking about me behind my back. I sometimes feel like I'm back in high school when I'm there. There is one woman who is friendly with me. She speaks good english, and does cashier work too, but she also makes pizzas. I sometimes think she is resenting me too. I try my best to be friendly to everyone, I've been there about a month, but I still feel tension between me and them. My mom says not to worry about them. I'm not going to stay there long anyway. But it bothers me because I know I'm a nice person, and I don't like being pre-judged by anyone. I know this is part of life, but it just makes me uncomfortable. I sometimes see some of them giving me funny looks like they think I'm weird or dumb, or something. I used to get picked on a lot in school, so I think that is why I'm so sensitive. Can anyone give me advice on how I can not let what they may or may not be thinking bother me? Does anyone think I'm imagining this? I feel like I'm the "new person" in their eyes, and to them I'm an "intruder" in their little "clique". I know that sounds dumb, but that is how it feels. Can anyone relate?
It must be really hard for you. I know it would be for me. Alot of people picked on me too in school. You just have to kill them with kindness. It is hard work but it is worth the while. If you are not staying there long then just put on your best face for a while. If you feel that there is tension between you and a co-worker you better mension something to your boss if anyhting esclates. The last thing you want is to get in a fight and be fired. I know that it is really hard and you are probably in the deepest dumps right now, but you just need to talk to people about the problem. It may also help if you write things down about your day. For example keeping a journal maybe not everyday, just when you need some one to talk to. I check my mail everyday so if you think it helps by talking to me or others that is ok. I hope my advice helps you and cheerup everyhting will be ok!