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I'm 14 and a girl. Last year i started thinking i was bi. Recently i've changed though because i believed it was wrong. School is starting soon and i'm afraid i'll end up looking at girls again and thinking the same stuff. I WANT to be straight but sometimes it gets soo hard!!!! And i haven't exactly had a good relationship with a guy for a while so that makes it even harder. Any tips on staying straight???
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Maybe you could try asking another girl out? You may feel it's wrong now but if it turns out to be who you are then you're not going to be happy unless you allow yourself the chance to explore all the possibilities.
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hi im 17/f--i liked this boy that i work wit, but i didnt wannna make da first move. s0o he made the first move, we started ho0kin up, then wen then that got borin we did otha things nd now we have sex... but idk if he likes me or juss wants to b fuck buddies, wut should i do?? (link)
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Stop having sex for a while and see if his attitude towards you changes. If he's only there for the sex you'll know it soon enough, and if he IS then you don't need him anyways.
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ok !i am having a really bad problem. well me and my boyfriend got into a serious arrgument today. he got mad at me cause he said that i was smiling at his friend. i am like omfg cant i even look at anyone.and on the bus today he broke up with me. then he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. he apoligized and i said ok. well he called me and talked to me a while ago and i dont even think his sister likes me. so what should i do brake up with him or not? srry for this bein so long.
i will rate all 5's and give feedback for helpful answers only.
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Small amounts of jealousy are normal. Ending a relationship over a smile is not. This kind of jealousy shows that he does not trust you and often times leads to violent behavior, even in people who don't seem prone to it. If there is no trust there is no love. It's a bad situation and I would recommend getting away from it as quickly as you can, at the very least until you can examine the situation more and explain to him that you will not be controlled.
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what does 69 mean???? (link)
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Simply put it's double oral sex. Use your imagination...
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Does It hurt to get your nose pierced? I really wanna get it done!! (link)
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Depends where. On the side isn't that bad, but the septum.....you WILL cry. And DO NOT TOUCH IT if you get it done in the middle. LOADS of nerve endings. You'll probably pass out from the pain.
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I have a problem, I put posters all over my walls, I act depressive & miserable, just because thats how I am, and I write poetry & i do things I want to do, and I wear black nail polish and tons of bracelets, But I dont have much money to buy the clothing, and everyone thinks Im weird becasue I act what they say I am *goth* but I dont really dress like one, I try to explain that I dont have alot of money right now and Im not poor, but my mom doesnt like paying for me, because I liek to get these clothes that are exspensive at hot topic. . I like the music too. . I dont know why I just do, so I decided that maybe My heart is telling me I should be. . Gothic. I wouldnt mind being gothic either, but is it the right path for me? I dont care much whne people make fun of me, I just ignore it, like they are invisiable, its like I enter my own world and I am just staring at things, I dont see outside of my head and someone said i looked like I was possed by the devil! I like love satan! I cant help it, it is just my beliefs Im not trying to fit in, im not trying to be cool its just how I freaking feel! I like to wear dark make- up and black is like my fave color, I try to mix my clothes ot make i look funky, untill I get some money to buy more clothing. . I just got a bass/guitar too . . I am also ina school with tons of ghetto people, they always make fun of me and make me go through a life of torture, I only have acouple friends there, and thne I have 3 others outside of school who live where I used to live, I have 7 friends in school, 10 friends total, but 2 out of 10 are guys and the rets are girls, and htey guys r kidna my firned but not really like they act like my firned but they barely talk to me, well one of them makes me laugh all the time and talks to me. . Well
All I wanna know is, am I following the right path? LyA, Bye!
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There is no right path. If that's how you feel then go for it. You obviously don't care about what other people think about you, and I'm amazed you'd even turn to an advice column. You've got your head in the right place so follow your heart.
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Not to be rude or anything, but I'm not trying to follow the trend, I just like it, and If i like it, then I should do it right? Im not trying to be cool, or popular. . I just wanna be what suits me best. I happen to liek the clothing gothic people wear, and I sometimes act as if i were gothic. So I guess you misunderstood. . well bye (link)
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I didn't misunderstand. I was stating to everyone the uselessness of following trends. If this is what suits you then I say go for it. As long as you like it you'll look and feel great!
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What do I do if a boy likes me who I don't like back? He wrote me notes in math class...had his friend give me one and he gave me one himself.
I keep complaining about this but its just annoying. I feel nothing...its feels like somethings missing whenever he looks at me...like somethings not right. I have NO feelings for him.
Everyone either tells me to stop complaining or
give him a chance but it's not that great when someone likes you and you DONT like then back. I don't really feel something when a boy likes me unless I like him the same way....so it's not that great. He still comes up to me and waves and says Hi *******! and I just wave and he like giggles or some weird thing. I mean...he's a really nice kid but nothings there...I feel like i want to cry...I have no clue why. Is this normal? I don't like him and I'm absoulutely sure about this...100%. I like someone else...and I don't know, whenever I see him my stomach twists and turns because I dont want him to give me another note or actually come up to me and ask me out...so I avoid him. I just don't want to deal with this...I don't want to turn him down...every girl turns him down and I feel so bad. But then again if I did go out with him nothing would be there anyway so there would be no point to that. I like another kid so much but i just have to get up the courage to at least smile at the boy.
errg! I'm so frustrated! I DON'T WANT ANY MORE NOTES! what do i do? And I'm NOT going to give him a chance because he has admitted to liking a whole bunch of girls just last week and even if I did like him it wouldn't be real if we went out...and last I heard he was going out with some girl named Ashley or something...ERGGG! what do I do...HE'S EXPECTING AN ANSWER SOON AND IT'S JUST ANNOYING! please help! (link)
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Well you can't avoid him forever that's for sure. If you don't want to "reject" him try to do it in a nice way. Tell him he's a nice guy but you don't feel that way towards him. If he persists you may need some intervention starting with his parents and yours, as well as school administrators. If he still bothers you after this it can become a serious problem possibly calling for police intervention.
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ok now wht makes popular people so popular i mean what is it about them? i mean theres like a bunch of popular kids at my school and i dont see how they r so great i mean all they do is talk behind eachothjers backi mean im not in the popular group but in like the semi-popular i guess is what its called and we never do that top eachother i mean i cant stand these popular kids and i wann know how they become so popular and why? (link)
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Popularity is linked directly to your insecurity. If all you want is to be popular you will never be happy. Just be yourself and be confident. You'll get much farther that way.
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...I have my very *first* job interview coming up! And since it's my first one, I am very nervous. :) I want the job mostly because I need to raise some money- but I know that's not the answer that the manager will want to hear. Any suggestions about what to do for the interview, other than dressing up? ;)
Much Love!
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Be professional. Make sure you're neat and tidy, speak clearly, smile, and be enthusiastic. It doesn't matter WHY you want the job as long as you want it more than the other applicants, provided you're qualified enough. Also make sure to NOT say "thank you for your time" at the end of it. My experience (and I have ALOT of it) shows most employers do not like this. It's become too common. If possible say something else to express your gratitude. No need to be nervous either. You'll do fine! ; )
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