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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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what do ladies think semen taste like and if you are experenced in the field do you spit or swallow?
I swallow.
Depending on the guy's diet and the girl's taste buds, i'm sure the taste differs. I personally think it tastes salty/warm. It's not the best thing in the world, but it's not "nasty" either. It depends on you.
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so i'm a fifteen year old girl.
i've had sex before with my boyfriend with condoms and it's been all good.
until today, we had it with the "mint tingle" from trogen.
we went all the way
and it broke.
we didnt notice it broke until he cumed.
so my questions are
what should i do? i've cleaned my self out a lot. we got it (or most of it) before it got in, i cleaned it with water and i'm about to go shower.
and what are the chances of me getting preg?
and has this happened to some one else, what happened, and what condom did you use?
audra's right. It's not as easy to get pregnant as most parents, sexual education teachers, etc. make it out to be. I know becoming pregant is a scary thought, but just keep in mind that even if you have unprotected sex, you aren't always going to get pregnant. Of course there's always that chance, but the more you stress, the worse this entire situation will become. You used protection, the method just become unreliable. Washing or cleaning yourself won't do anything if by some chance you are pregnant. You wasted your time. I'm not sure when this happened, but if it's not to late, try buying the morning after pill. Use a different brand of condoms next time, and consider getting put on the pill.
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If I have been on birth control for one pack already, along with 2 weeks into the next pack, do you think I'm safe because my bf came in me last night and I'm not positive. Also, I've never missed a day but I've been about 4 hours MOST off from taking it. Like I take it at 9 but took it at 1 but took it at 9 the next time I took it. Do you still think I'm safe?
Doctors say to take the pill at the exact same time of the day everyday to be completely protected. To me, this is just a procaution. I'm on the pill and don't take it at the same time of the day hardly ever and i'm still not pregnant. I'm not saying you should do this, keep taking the pill at the same time by all means, i'm just letting you know about my experiences. I doubt you are pregant if you've been taking the pill for at least a month. So i'm sure your fine.
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Why do guys get wet dreams? Like this one guy i know has been dating a girl for two years and he has been having wet dreams about me?
I have to ask; What does this boy dating a girl for two years have to do with your question pertaining to wet dreams?
It seems likely to me that you want the columnists to tell you he's attracted or wants to be with you, not the other girl. I doubt anyone will give you this advice, and if someone does, I wouldn't take it if I were you.
Guys have wet dreams. It's normal, and usually out of the guys control. He could be dreaming about you.. he could be dreaming about his girlfriend.. or he could be dreaming about school, friends, work, or something else. The actual dream itself doesn't have to pertain to some sort of arousal.
I don't know why this guy told you he's having wet dreams about you. He's either completely lying about the dream all together, or wants you to think he's attracted to you. I personally think if he was attracted to you, he would flat out tell you. Not say he's having a wet dream about you. I wouldn't talk to this guy anymore if I were you. You don't want to wreck a relationship that's lasted 2 years over something as stupid as an attraction.
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How do I make my eyes pop? I have brown-red ish eyeliner/black eyeliner. Liquid eyeliner. I have really dark brown eyes and long eyelashes.
Do purple/green really make your eyes stand out?
What colors [eyeshadows] do I need to stay away from?
Any pictures?
To keep things as simple as possible, your best bet would be to purchase the Almay Intensify Eye Color products. The whole set includes eye shadow, eyeliner, and mascara. The only downfall is you have to buy all three seperate.
Since you have dark brown eyes, you will want to stay away from dark colors and look for lighter shades. When applying eyeshadow, using various shades will make the color more vibrant and deeper. Shades such as three shades of blue, or at least two shades of pink is going to give your eyes a better overall appearance.
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well me and my boyfriend recently had sex for the first time.. we are both 15 he wears a small condom but i feel it doesnt matter he tries to hid it.. how can i make him feel "bigger"? (were up for anything hand job, head, and sex)
Don't try to make him feel bigger try making him feel better. Tell him out great the sex is, and how he pleasures you so much. Size really has nothing to do with sex, quality is what matters- make sure he knows that too.
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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.
To me it sounds like you're a very smart person, so try reading. It sounds dumb, but it's one of my favorite past times. I spend almost all my spare time at school in the library. There are so many great books out there to read, and a lot are directed towards teenagers. If you would like a list of wonderful books, let me know and i'll give you one via feedback.
If reading isn't your thing, try exercising. It's healthy and fun to do if you make it. I'm a cheerleader, so I like practicing at home to get better. I stretch, practice my jumps, splits, tumbling, etc. You could do something similar if your interested.
Try joining a sports team. Basketball, volleyball, cheerleading, etc. If you're out of school/don't like sports try joining a club or organization.
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ok ill get strait to the point! My boyfriend is big!! He is bigger than the other guys i've seen! he has fingered me and everything but he couldn't get 2 fingers in, just 1. we tried to pull a wuicky (have sex quickly) for the first time for both of us and I am too small. so if we use a lubricated condom will he slide in? or do we have to push and force it?
A.. wuicky?
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I have a deep fear of germs and getting sick. Even the thought of catching a regular cold drives me crazy. I was my hands for 10 minutes, and at school, I wear a bandanna that covers my nose and mouth to help keep the germs away. I mean, hey it's not my fault that kids at my school go swimming in 10 degree weather over the weekend, and then catch a cold. Basically Everyone is sick at my school ALL the time.
Some of my teachers get mad at me when I wear my bandanna, but if they make me sit next to, talk to, and help out sick people, why shouldn't I be able to wear it? I'm not going to get sick because of one stupid person. Last week, I skipped alot of my classes just because I sat next to sick people in them and I don't want to get sick. Mainly because I just started working out, and if I'm sick, I won't be able to work out. (yes, working out is REALLY important to me.)
Now my question, I guess my question is, is there anything else I can do from getting sick? Any healthy tips that you can inform me on? (Besides obvious stuff like washing your hands.) Do you think the bandanna is a good idea? I've actually considered wearing a surgical mask but then people would think I'm even weirder.
Also, how possible is it that I'm going to get sick if I sit next to someone sick, for about 45 minutes every day? (Keep in mind that I'm wearing my bandanna over my nose and mouth.) ANY advice you have would be helpful because I'm flipping out right now.
I know that your question is asking for health tips, and not a diagnosis, but I think it's my responsibility to inform you that what your experiencing is the many side effects of OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.) Don't freak out on me, I'm not saying that you have this disorder, I'm just telling you it may be smart to mentinon some of your symptoms to your parents.
It's normal to not want to get sick. Many people are just as terrified, if not more so, then you are now. I on the otherhand, have a weak immune system and catch every illness that comes my way. I hate getting sick too, but I guess you can say I've become used to it?
I don't think it's healthy to wear a bandanna to school, and especially not a surgical mask. It sucks that you catch more illnesses at school than anywhere else, but it's also life. If you don't want to get around kids that are sick, that's fine. But I don't think it's neccessary to freak out about it like you are. Just chill out. As for the exercise, you can still do exercising if you get sick, just lighter and less strenuous.
As for some health tips, don't stay up late. Get plenty of rest and try not to stress out to bad. Wash your sheets frequently, and eat healthy foods. Drink lots of water and juices without sugars. Also, talk to your parents about getting vitamins.
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how would youknow if someone likes you? and also what happends if i really like someone like a lot what should i do?
You can't exactly just 'know' if someone likes you, because everyone shows affection in different ways. The best advice I can give you is to just ask this person if he/she likes you.
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Hey im 16 from Texas and ,me and my gf have had sex a couple times and she gets her period and passes the pregnancy test and everything but the other day when i was fingering her i noticed a little light blood on my hand like she was spotting and shes not a virgin so i dont think i broke anything, what do u think could be wrong
anyhelp?
You probably just ripped her slightly- or like you said, she could just be spotting before her period.
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I have a bOyfriend. He's a few years Older then me, and He is gOing On a cruise in a mOnth and i can't trust him. He's cheated On me three times in the past, this time since we've been gOing Out for awhile he hasn't but since he's gOing on the cruise in a mOnth i cant really trust him, what dO i dO? because i just think he's gOing tO dO the same thing tO me again, and idOn't want him tO.
Trust is key in a relationship. If you don't trust him to go on this cruise, then this relationship obviously will never work out.
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does any one know this song?
it has "cus shes bitter sweet shes the one that i need....." "she pushed me in the pool at our last school reunion......" lol i can't remember alot of it lol thnx :)
Someone already answered the question, but a good website for problems like this is:
www.letssingit.com
if you type in some of the lyrics of a song you do know, and search it on "lyrics" it will give you a list of songs with those words in them, and you can find the song you want from there.
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Is a hand job the same thing as a blow job and if not then what is a hand job (i know what a blow job is)
They aren't the same.
A handjob is when a person grabs their partners penis and massages/rubs up and down the base of it for stimulation.
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Ok well i kinda dont no what to do cause as a guy i look at porn but i do not just look at any kind.. i like to look at girls in bondage...i want to do it and be in change but then again i want someone to do anything to me and make me do anything but i dont know what to do cause i think its kinda weird and i dont no how to approch someone to find out what they think? any oppinions! thanks 19/m
BDSM is a common fetish; so it's nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. But you're right, I personally think it would be weird to randomly ask a lover to go as far as bondage, etc.
With an exception to porn starts, usually only couple in long term relationships that are looking to try something new really go for the whole BDSM. Try waiting?
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How can you get pregnant from having anal?
You can't actually get pregnant from anal sex in general; but while having anal sex, the sperm can dribble into the vagina (the wholes are closer than you might think) & thus cause you to be pregnant.
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umm yeahh me and my girlfriend r gonna lick eachother in our "lower areas". Were both thirteen and both of us have never done anything else sexually active. (except for maybe touching eachother but i dont think that really counts) Is there any diseased or anything we can get from doing that?
Herpes & Siphilis.
sp?
BTW; it's called oral sex.
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Me and my gf r gonna have anal. wats the positives and negivitives of that and how do we do it? and is there any diseases you can get from it?
It's actually easier to get an STD from anal sex than it is from regular sex. The only positives I can think of are the fact it will be very pleasurable for the guy & the risk of pregnancy is lowered. You can still get pregnant (but that's a different story). The negatives are you can easily attract an STD, it's painful on the girl, it's messy, and sometimes the receivers (your gf) will secrete a brown liquid (which is pretty much shit that hasn't released itself yet) onto your penis.
I've never had anal sex, and I doubt I ever will. It's just not my thing.
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im a male im 13 and i masterbait a lot. i mean like a LOT. like 5-6 times a week. sometimes more then that, like 2wice a day. ive been doing it sence i was 8 but i started ejaculating when i was 12. Could i when im older and married not be abble to have kids, from not having eneough sperm? Will it run out?
You won't run out of sperm, your body produces more when it feels it needs to. At your age; hormones are at their highest, so it's normal to masturbate a lot. As long as it doesn't interfere with your social and school life right now, you have nothing to worry about.
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im a virgin and my boyfriend is to and we talk about having sex and i told him "soon enough". but i have some questions like when your hymen rips are you supposed to stop and clean up or keep going? and i dont want to tell my mom that im planning on having sex since im only 12 and hes 13 so where do we get condoms? last question....what are the disappointments/disadvantages of using birth control?
well thanks in advance
Please don't have sex yet. At LEAST wait until you've been thirteen for a while. You aren't even a teenager yet. Please, rethink and consider this. Have you even had sex ed yet?
But i'm not judging you.
The advantages are obvious.
- No pregnancy
- Lighter & shorter periods
- Helps with mood swings
Disadvantages.
- Can cause you to gain weight.
- Don't prevent against STDS.
Don't have sex. Not yet.
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