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The Question
It's gross, especially when it's overt and/or persistant. I thought a relationship was meant to be between 2 people? Why do some couples try to get other people's attention? I noticed yesterday at the mall. There was this interracial couple all over each other, as we stood in line at this food place, and i'd focus on other things but they'd sometimes look back with this look on their face line they want their relationship to interest people, incite anger or jealousy, etc. it was awkward for me, directly behind them, and others in line. I have no problem with any couple, interracial, gay, lesbian, transgender, one young and one old, etc. I'm happy others can find love and be in relationships. I'm not jealous either, it's just uncomfortable to essentially be viewing foreplay without consent. There were children in line, too. Some people seem to get a sexual thrill out of people seeing their pda and that just seems sick and self centered. It makes me understand why there are countries that ban it.
The Answer
Because they like it.
You are certainly right that some people do it show off, or to get a response, but that doesn't matter. When you are free to do something, then people are free to do that thing for stupid reasons, or to be rude.
You are being very judgemental. You'd probably be less offended, and generally have a more peaceful life, if you took a deep breath and gave people a bit more respect. You don't have to like it, but there really isn't a good reason to go around assuming the worst of others. The best explanation, isn't that they are getting off on it like sickos, it's just that they do like it.
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