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I've been dating this guy from my class for 1-2 months and he really really loves me, and i think it's because I'm his first girlfriend plus he's really closed up person.
We have been really close these few months, he had his first kiss with me, but as time passes i see that I'm loosing my feelings for him, plus he looks like the guy who's threatening me and he doesn't communicate a lot and I talk a lot, i can talk with days without shutting up, and it bothers me that he doesn't talk a lot and i told him to talk more, but nothing changed.
I feel guilt, and it's killing me a lot, but somehow i know that if i break up with him he'll do something bad to himself and he will get hurt a lot, because i know how much it hurts to someone break up with you.
So how do i break up with him without doing it bad or hurting him a lot? (link)
Obviously no matter how you break up with someone, it will hurt.

I don't know how old you are, but if you're still in school, then tell a counselor if you're afraid of him hurting himself.
But that shouldn't stop you from breaking up with him because that won't be fair to him. So if you really think he'll hurt himself, then tell somebody.

And don't break up with him over the phone or through a note or something.
In person is always best, and not around other people.


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