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I'm feeling terrible. I can't stand my brother any longer. Actually, he lives in another city, and is spending his vacation time at home. Thing is that he won't do anything at home, he doesn't help us with anything and sleeps the whole day! I hate him! How can I cope with this situation? It's aweful, since I don't want to confront him either; I just want him to go away!
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(p.s please, I don't want ''adviceman 49'' to reply to this message, I mean it. Thanks again!) (link)
It's hard to answer without knowing both of your ages or knowing if you live with parents, ect.

Well if you do live with parents, my advice would be to talk with them since you don't want to talk to him yourself.

Unfortunately, you can't make him go away. I don't know how long he'll be there but if it's not for a long time, then try to hang in there. If he's there for quite awhile, then the only solution I can come up with is talking to parents or talking to him yourself.

You don't need to attack him and complain to him, but just ask him to help out.

But other than that, I'm not sure what else to do. Hang in there.


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Thanks! I'll try :)




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