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I am currently I a relationship with a girl which has been going on for about a year and a half. She is from Norway and is currently at her home for Christmas. She will be back in January.

I have recently started thinking about breaking up with her and I can't seem to understand why. She is probably the cutest girl I've ever met and nice but for some reason she's not what I want.

The only thing that's stopping me from ending it right now is that I don't want to hurt her. I could easily stay with her and keep it going and I'd be content with that but that is not the right choice.

I really don't know why I feel like this and I just want some advice on how I should deal with the situation. (link)
I completely agree with Dragonflymagic.

Why settle for what you're not looking for. I'm positive she's a great girl but there's still something that isn't there for you.

When you're young, a lot of break ups will happen because someone is finding themselves.

I have no idea if you have an idea of what you want in life. Either way, this isn't something you want. And you should focus on yourself. It will hurt her more in the long run if you keep this going and it'll be holding her back from finding someone else who is right for her.


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