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Q: Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and I don't really feel normal. For starters my breasts are too small and I'm short, so I'm physically falling behind all of my peers. I know that I'll catch up though, so that only hurts my self esteem, but I'll be ok. What I'm really concerned with is mental development. I feel like I'm too "hormonal". I Masturabate once every two days or so and I have sex fantasies and things like that (although I'm not going to actually have sex for a long time). It just concerns me because most of the kids at my school seem so innocent, like they don't have hormones, or fantasies, or anything. So an I the only one? Am I "normal"?
Trust me. It's normal. It's all part of the puberty process. Most people act like they are innocent but they're really not. They are just too embarrassed to admit it. Being insecure is also part of the hormones or puberty process. Your not through puberty yet so you still have time to prosper and grow and learn to become comfortable with who you are. Don't let anyone bring you down because you are beautiful inside and out!

Haha thanks!!! This helped a lot!!

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