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How do I act at school to be liked and to get more friends? I am from England Uk (link)
be your self......


So I had this "best friend" for 11 years. All in all I don't think she's a bad person but over the years it seemed to me like she was just using me, only talking to me when she needed help or advice. I had/have an eating disorder and when she found out, she ignored me because she thought I was being complicated. I then lied to her that I'm good again,basically hiding my problems. The thing is that her boyfriend asked me if she was cheating on him and I told him yes (because she was). It just felt like the right thing to do because she was being horrible to him most of the time, not allowing him to do anything, basically putting him on a leash. When she found out I told him she said that our friendship is over. I don't know how I should feel, I mean she never really felt like a true friend anyways. Otherwise I'm still kind of sad about this because she was the only person I knew for this long and grew up with. I know that telling her boyfriend maybe wasn't quite the right thing but I just felt sorry for him and I didn't want him living a lie. How can I get over this? I'm pretty sure our friendship is over. Should I be sad about it? My boyfriend keeps telling me that I didn't really lose much because she was never acting like a good friend anyways. I'm also really hurt because in the end she made it seem like I'm the horrible person, even though I was always there for her, even though she only talked to me when she needed me. I helped her through so many bad things in her life, I used to talk to her for hours on the phone, just to make her feel better. And now she's the one saying that she can't be friends with someone like me. I'm just so angry right now.. (link)
You did the right thing to her boyfriend becouse if you did not tell him he will feel really bad when she brakes up with him. She was really just buying you. You should make new friends and she will be guilty that she acted like that... Just ignore her she was using you...


I'm one year into transition from M to F,had an orchi in December,been living as a female since.I've had my gender marker changed {social security,insurances,titles and deeds,driver's license,credit cards,etc.}I show significant growth in breasts and hips.I still get called Sir often and get stared at and called names (99% of the time by males of all ages}.I try not to show how hurtful these things affect me and try to exit bad scenes as fast as I can without crying {blood in the water and all that}.I often fear for my safety and am constantly looking for escape routes and safe places.My female friends say this is all part of the female experience and to get used to it.Now I wonder if I'm brave enough to be female,I never considered that being trans was always living in fear.What should I do now? I'm finally happy with myself and now I'm scared to go on.What do I do now??? (link)
i know it might be scary. The only thing i will tell is dont listen to oher people. Hang out with your friends. And you will be fine


If you could please look at my page: http://www.gofundme.com/SamiMadsen
My name is Sami Madsen. I am 21 years old. I have had chronic pain in my left kidney for over one year now. They have ran hundreds of tests and put me on a bunch of medication, some of which have made my condition worse. They cannot seem to figure out why I am still in pain and they continue to run expensive tests and prescribe several different medications. My medical bills are piling up and I can't seem to get ahead. My medical insurance is not wonderful and I am doing what I can to catch up on these bills. I am not one to ask for help; but a friend told me about this page and I am running out of options. Thank you for taking the time to read my story! Also, If you are in the Salt Lake area I do photography on the side and am willing to do photo shoots for reasonable prices. I also have shirts for sale on teespring.com. if you would like to know more about photos or shirts please feel free to e-mail me at sami.madsen143@gmail.com Thank you! (link)
you should look at the page... Only if it helped your friend




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