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I've hardly had any friends because I didn't want to be anybody's slave,so to speak. I've always been called ugly just because I'm not skinny and I don't wear make-up (I put eyeshadow and mascara on sometimes) and because I don't have money for branded clothes. I've always been called a nerd because I liked to study and have all A's and thanks to that now I'm studying medicine. I'm labeled as boring because I don't go partying every weekend,getting drunk and having sex with many guys. Nobody wants to get to know me,they all judge either on what they see or what they hear about me. No matter what I try no guy will notice me. It's like I'm invisible. And the most hated person in the world. How to be confident and have self worth when your life is like this? I don't wanna stop living,even though it had crossed my mind. I can't exactly talk to anyone about this because they think I'm being a drama queen. Nobody takes into account how I really feel. (link)
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I think you're just surrounding yourself with the wrong people.
You have some self worth and confidence because you said you liked to study and you're now studying medicine. That's a great thing to be proud of.
Honestly, you're just really busy caring about what people think of you and you define yourself of what they think. It really only matters what you think.
So if you think you're overweight, start working out. You don't need to have a lot of money to dress nice. I have really nice looking clothes that were extremely cheap and not name brand.
As for being called a nerd and boring, that's just you hanging around the wrong people and talking to the wrong people.
Like adviceman said, I think you should join clubs or different activities that you'd enjoy so that you can make friends with people who share the same interests as you. You'll make new friends.
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