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Im young, so I haven't experienced everything yet, but I'll try to help.I am 18 years old, studying A levels in sixth form. I've watched all the dramas of school and family life happen around me though.
People say I think sideways... so if you don't mind that ask away.
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My parents have left me in charge at home while they are away of my sister 15 and brother 12.
Yesterday I caught my sister wearing a bikini(sliding triangle top and small side tying bottoms)that she is not supposed to have and taking SELFIES of herself in it, that she was going to send to the guy that bought the bikini for her that is nearly as old as me.
What do I do
1. Give her the bikini back, pretend I know nothing about it and possibly land myself in trouble if my parents find out about the bikini.
2. Keep the bikini give it to my parents on their return and tell them about the SELFIES and the guy, my sister will be in big trouble.
3. Give my sister a chance but insist the bikini is destroyed as part of the deal.
I personally think number 1.
You shouldn't purposely get your sister in trouble. I think its nice you're worried she'll experience something bad from sending bikini selfies to a guy, but if she does, its her problem, not yours (unless she asks for help) and she'll have learnt the lesson.
No need to destroy a perfectly good bikini- she may want to just go buy another for summer anyway.
If you get in trouble for not telling on her, tell them you didn't want to interfere with what is HER business, she's 15! Its a coming of age thing nowadays (though it shouldn't be) She's going to learn that boys will not respect a girl who easily sends pictures. She'll learn. Talk to her, but not the parents You'd better be thankful she had the bikini on! I know girls younger than her who've done worse.
So, tell her you know, warn her, but don't tell on her. You shouldn't be getting in trouble for not saying anything.
Give her a chance...but whats destroying the bikini going to do, really? Not much.
(Rating: 3) Have decided parents need to know about the situation and will hand the bikini over it is her mess and she can take the consequences for it