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So i just cant stand my boyfriends sister she is a huge bitch and always tries to break us up every chance she gets
She is always getting into our business and always calls him with her stupid problems when me and him are hanging out
I love my bf but i can not stand when he mentions her name or picks up her call when we are doing something
I cant say specifically why i hate her because its too long of a story but she is an evil bitch and i just need advice on what to do cause she is the reason me and my bf argue alot (link)
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This is a tough situation for you.
When you're dating someone, sometimes their family can be difficult. That's why you'll hear stories of crazy mother in laws and such. In this case, it's the sister. I'm sure he loves his sister and that's why he always wants to be there for her and all that. That's a good thing, but when it starts interfering with your relationship, it becomes a problem.
You just need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend. Tell him that you love him, you want this relationship to work but you feel like his sister is starting to get in between your relationship and you don't want to fight because of her. Ask him if he could talk to her so that she can stop interfering.
Talking bad about her to your boyfriend won't help. Don't say anything negative about her. He obviously cares about her so you just shouldn't talk bad about his family. When you date someone, you deal with their family. Trying to get them to cut contact would be a bad thing to do. Like adviceman said, boyfriends are a package deal.
So just talk to him. I'm sure he understands that it hurts you so just ask him to talk to her so that these things don't keep happening.
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Rating: 4
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Alright but like you said he loves me and only cares about her. To you it may seem that all families are suppose to love each other but he doesn't love her I'm #1 in his life
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