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I'm 15 and my friends(a little older than me) have been dating all that stuff.
I'm homechooled,and I live in a really small town so I don't really know any guys, and I really don't have much of a desire to date.
My family is Christian(I even live across the street from my church) and conservative.
I was wondering about when I have a boyfriend. I would have no idea what to do since I've never dated before, And considering that my freinds have already done sexual things, I'm worried he'd pressure me.
I would much rather wait to lose my virginity(preferably till marrage),I don't want a relationship to be all about sex and making out and stuff, I want it to be like we're best friends and all I really need is a guy who is nice, has a sense of humor, and treats me well.
I don't know...I guess I'm just afraid that when I do get a boyfriend he'll try to pressure me to do stuff I'm not ready for and I might not be able to say no... I'm really shy and I just don't know how to talk to guys either... (link)
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Well obviously you don't want to date a guy who pushes your boundaries. You don't want somebody who doesn't respect you and how you feel about things.
What I do when I start dating a guy, I'll tell them my boundaries. If they push me to go any further than I'm comfortable, I'm done with them. A lot of guys like a girl who has respect for herself and wouldn't cave to do absolutely anything.
So if you feel like you can't stand up for yourself or express how you feel, then that means you're not ready for a relationship any time soon. You'll just be miserable with the guy you're dating. So wait it out until you know that you can stand up for what you want and don't want.
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