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[19F]
Im in a long distance relationship for 1 year now. when he left in January, it kinda felt a little different.
He keeps telling i should find someone better and that i deserve better. He also said he wants me to be skinnier and says I sometimes look ugly when i dont do my hair. He also broke up with me a few times (at least i thought he did)
I told him like 4 times, that if he does this again to me, i wont come back. yeah like i said i did that 4 times, i always forgive him.
Now he did it again, told me his "Im-gonna-break-up-with-you-speech" again and that hurt me so much.
I told him that this really hurts me and he didnt even apologize. he was just like "ok.sorry"
We said that i will visit him in summer again, and he still wants me to come. I mean i want to come too, but it cant go on like that right?
I really dont know what to do...
Thank you for reading that, I appreciate every advice (link)
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You're right when you say he doesn't care about you. He really doesn't. I agree with Zane. This guy is awful and treats you like crap. He is definitely right that you deserve better.
He has no right to control how you look. A boyfriend is supposed to be supportive. He's not supposed to tell you to lose weight or ever call you ugly. He's supposed to accept you for who you are, not try to change you. Never ever stay with someone who wants you to change.
Stop talking to him. He can't just keep playing with your feelings like that. You deserve someone who can treat you better. Believe me, you'll find someone ten times better.
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