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Ok, so I have been dating this girl that I love and such. But my freinds, literally, all of them, hate, her. And I have been freinds with them for my whole life, so I thought about just dumping her, then I noticed that she had been getting a little clingy lately, and finally, we got In bed, if you know what I mean. Then I had to stay with her, but I just don't know what to do! What should I do, stick with my freinds, or stay with my girl? (link)
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If you love her, why would you break up with her because your friends don't like her? That's not what love is.
Honestly, real friends won't make you choose. I have friends that have girlfriends who I don't like, but you don't go around nagging them and telling them to break up with them. In fact, I don't even tell them that I don't want them to hang around us. That's not what real friends do.
There shouldn't be a choice. You should be able to keep your friends and your girlfriend. If your friends are making you choose, make you should take a different look at your friendship.
If your girlfriend is making you choose, then take a look at the relationship.
A real reason to break up with her would be if you don't have feelings for her anymore. Not because your friends don't like her. If you like her, that's what matters.
Another real reason is to realize that you guys just don't mix. Your personalities don't click.
Things like that are reasons to break up with someone. Not because your friends don't like her. They have every right to not like her, but to make you choose is wrong.
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They're not making me chose, I just don't want to lose either my girlfriend or my best freinds at all, I liked it when you said that I shouldn't have to choose, between them.
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