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Someone help I just wanna have friends make new friends I barley am around people because usually stay home babysitting I can't go out on certain days. The people I babysit are my siblings so it no problem I just can't join any clubs in school because of it I just wish there was a way I could make friends that understand my babysitting situation. I love bing there for others and talking to people but when I arrive to school I can't socialize I usually go to the bathroom and wait till class starts :/ I also have a boyfriend he understands but he also doesn't have many friends. The friends I have don't really have that connection with me :/ (link)
You need to get out of your comfort zone. I'm assuming you're shy and that's why you don't have many friends.

Either way, the way to make friends is to talk to people. You don't have to be in clubs or anything to have friends. I never was in any clubs but I still had so many friends. I met a lot of them in my classes. I'd start talking to one, become closer to them, start hanging out with them and meet their friends and become friends with them too.
So when you have an opportunity to talk to someone, take it.
Be nice, be kind, be friendly and you'll make some new friends. You just need to take some steps to get out of your comfort zone.


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