soph0900's advice column

Im young, so I haven't experienced everything yet, but I'll try to help.
I am 18 years old, studying A levels in sixth form. I've watched all the dramas of school and family life happen around me though.

People say I think sideways... so if you don't mind that ask away.

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This year I met this guy,(we'll call him Alex) who's in my group. He told me he ended his relationship of a year after finding out she had cheated on him for the second time(he forgave her the first). He went to a party last night with me. Everyone thought we're together and they kept asking but we both avoided answering. He spends his mornings with me at school, just us two and I think he might like me. But last night he said, "This chick is always texting me. I'm just not ready for a relationship just yet, and she doesn't get that." So did he say that so I would get the drift? Or was he just saying he doesn't want anything with her?

I'm not sure from what you described;
The good signs :
he didnt say he WASNT with you at that party ~hence avoiding answering
He likes spending time with you
He mentioned he's not into this other girl at all.

The bad sign :
He blantently said he's not ready for a relationship. He has just been hurt after all!
>but that might just be her, not you< ;)

I think you shouldnt overthink it and just enjoy spending time with him, and who knows where things might go...
But watch out for a few more signs; does he flirt with you? Does he compliment you? Do you catch him looking your way often?

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! He does flirt a bit, but I've never seen him with another girl so I can't compare.

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