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My name is Amanda but my friends call me Manda Bear. I'm 23 years young and live in a small town in Ohio. I joined advicenators on Jan. 9th 2013. I want people to know that I am here to help anyone that needs it. Anyone can feel free to ask me whatever they wish. I hope that my time on this website proves to be fun and productive.
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Ok so I went to a dance friday night and danced with 2 guys (Tyson, Trevor) and then this other guy named Sam whom I have a history with came up at the end of the dance and told me that he wished he had asked me to dance during one of the slow songs. Now, its only been 2 days and I can not stop thinking about those 3 guys. The things I dont understand: 1. Trevor is on my bus and thinks Im crazy and has been kinda a hater, but Ive always like him a tiny bit. He asked me to dance and then gave me a hug before I left. 2. Tyson and I only text and talk, he likes me and flat out admitted it when we danced. Problem is that my best friend is his ex. 3. Sam has a girlfriend.. Help?
I would rule Sam out completely because he has a girlfriend.
Before considering Tyson I would ask your friend what she would think if you were to date him. Try to bring it up casual. Say something like "At the dance Tyson asked to dance with me and he seemed like he really liked me! Can you believe that? What would you think if he asked me out?" If she seems cool with it and you like him a lot go for him! :)
If you think Trevor is a "hater" but he possibly might just be teasing you because he likes you. If so then I would consider him. I would definitely talk with him more (maybe flirt a little) and see if you think he is into you or if he just wanted to dance with you.
You don't want to read too much into a guy dancing with you. They might have just wanted to dance.
Ask yourself out of Tyson and Trevor who do you like the most? Which one is more like you? Which one is nicer to you? Which one makes you laugh? Make a pros and cons list of the things you do like about each one and the things that you do not like. This might help you sort things out a little bit better!
I want to know how it works out chicky! :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!