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My name is Amanda but my friends call me Manda Bear. I'm 23 years young and live in a small town in Ohio. I joined advicenators on Jan. 9th 2013. I want people to know that I am here to help anyone that needs it. Anyone can feel free to ask me whatever they wish. I hope that my time on this website proves to be fun and productive.
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A week ago I went to Florida to visit my boyfriend. It's a long distance relationship and we engaged in sexual activity for the first time.
He fingered me, and I gave him blow jobs a few times, swallowing. Half way through the trip my clitoris became a bit sore and when I got home I went to the doctor. She said it was most likely just a fungal infection and gave me an antibiotic. After that, the pain went away quickly.
However, now I'm really worried. I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone about going on birth control before our next visit and I discovered that he had not gotten STD tested after his last girlfriend who he had sex with, because she was a virgin prior.
But I don't trust his ex-girlfriend and I know people lie or you can get STDs from oral sex as well.
Should I get tested for STDs, and if so, which ones?
Am I wrong to ask my boyfriend to get tested as well, even if his ex was a virgin?
He thinks I'm being paranoid.
It couldn't hurt one bit to get tested! Just to be safe I would. When you go into the doctor tell them that you want to be tested for everything and aything that you can. At my doctor I had to specifically ask to be tested for HIV/AIDS so ask them what all STDs they are going to test you for.
I would tell your BF that it is very important to you that he gets tested as well. That you aren't being paranoid because there is a chance that his previous GF might have had something. Tell him you aren't willing to be sexually active with him anymore unless he goes through with it. If he really cares about you he will do it.
This is really too important to let go. Stand your ground and let him know that you aren't budging and he has to go get tested to be with you in any sexual way!
I hope this helped! :)
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