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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6months now, we've been on 2 "breaks" because I felt like I couldn't deal with his ways. I'm 22 and he's 24, we're both in college, he just recently got a job 2 weeks ago because he needed to pay rent. Our first date he paid for dinner but after that we began taking turns and now it seems like in always the one paying for dinner, movie tickets, dates etc. One of the reasons we took a break was because he's a bum aka doesn't have a car, didn't have a job and has no money/ broke all the time. I felt shallow because I wanted to break up with him but he convinced me to take a break. Then a few weeks later we took another break because I just couldn't take it anymore! Instead of finding a job he would be at his apt playing video games all day!! I made a list of pros and cons of staying with him and I definitely had more cons but I was still with this guy!! Whyyyyy I can't tell you because I'm
not so sure myself! I consider him to be my first "real" relationship so maybe that's why I'm still with him? He says he loves me but I know I don't love him...yet or even at all, I don't know to be honest. Am I expecting too much from him? Should I finally break up with him? I mean the times we have together are good not great. I feel awful that I'm breaking up with him for this reason. Help!!
You have to put your feelings first before anyone. And apparently there's confusion there with your feelings towards him. & Really it don't seem like you do really love him. He needs to be the 24 year old man and not a child. He got a job to provide himself not himself and a gf. Im sorry but that's what it really looks like. I don't think he can take care of himself and on top of that he's trying to have a gf. You seem like a strong Independent woman who can take care of herself and is going down because of her slackish bf. Go with your first and only instincts and end it before it's to late & you get in too deep and then you go bankrupt paying for him and being his "MOTHER" he needs to clean up his act before he can take care of any gurl & you need a real independent MAN who can take care of himself and then you
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You're right when you said he's providing for himself and not "us"!!! Thank you!!!
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