Hi. My name is Farrah, I am 13 years old and this is me. I love to crochet, read, listen to One Direction, help others, and other things, but I am chasing my dream of becoming a famous pop successful singer. One of my inspirations are Katy Perry and many more. I am young, but I am not too young to realize that a dream is wanted to come true! And I am still wishing and hoping it comes true. I am a nice girl, the shy type, generous, etc. You can talk to me so don't think you can't! I will try to help you the best way I can and you can help me answer my questions! Even though I may not know many of you, I will be your friend! :)
Gender: Female
Location: Richmond,VA
Occupation: chasing my dream of being a singer! :)
Age: 13
Member Since: July 21, 2012
Answers: 15
Last Update: July 22, 2012
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The guy I've been off and on with for 3 years (mostly on with a few breakups)is not the perfect guy for me in just a few ways. All these ways have nothing to do with personality. He is addicted to rescription pills and just about any drug when he gets in his lows. I've constantly tried to help him but he always pushes me away and then comes back.Fact is, I was probably enabling him more than helping him back then.
Last time he relapsed (a month and a half ago) after going 90 days clean and being in rehab, I figured enough was enough and ended it. He keeps coming back here and then saying he still loves me. And it sucks cause I still am SO in love with him but know I can't be with him.
I'm just hoping for some advice on moving on. I know the first step is accepting the decision to and I'm having trouble doing that. I keep wishing that he would just get clean and we could be together. This guy is like perfect for me personality wise. We click so well and only ever fight about the drugs. Plus we have an insane physical attraction that I'm also missing :/ I feel like I'm never gonna get through this. I just really really crave to be happy again. I can't stand this pain :( (link)
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First off let me say, I am not going to judge you or your on and off boyfriend. No one should judge you. I am going to answer your question with the best advice as possible.
I am just a 13 year old girl who is still waiting for a moment that I can find love. But it's hard and I am too young! I shoukd be lisgening to One Direction and be going to Justin Bieber concerts!
I honestly think that you should leave him. Yeah I know, it is hard to let go of the people you love,but he needs help. When people say that enough is enough,they mean it. They don't keep running back. If you keep doing that, he is going to expect that. Just because you two won't be a couple, doesn't mean you guys can't be good friends. You can support him in every way and be there to comfort him when he needs to be consoled. Hope my advice can help! :)
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