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Q: I am 16 and I just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, I was previously a virgin, he did not cum in me he has alot of self control, trust me I would know and we didn't do it for very long before he popped my cherry and I told him to stop because it hurt. But he DID precum inside me and I would like to know of those risks I know it's possible but unlikely to get pregnant from precum but the bigger picture is what are the risks such as sexually transmitted diseases. I've read online that it's possible to contract chlamydia and ghonneria easier through precum but sometimes the internet doesn't give very valid info like (you have to be ovulating to get pregnant and my friend says that's the stupidest thing she's ever heard and her teacher says it's rediculously easy) but anyone who knows for sure, for a fact, perhaps an educated professional on these things. I just don't want more false information. Please and thank you for your help!
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I'm not a professional whatsoever, but I have never ever heard that you can get an STD from precum. Has your boyfriend had multiple sex partners before you? Have you both ever even talked about STD's before?
I'm 16 as well, but I hope you can be more responsible. I don't want to sound harsh, but I'm just being honest. My boyfriend has a lot of self control as well, so we're safe, but we usually do it with condoms, and I think you should, too. It's much safer that way. xoxoxo good luck! Inbox me if you have any questions.
p.s. you can get pregnant if you have sex close to ovulation and during
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I've read on multiple websites that you can get any std from precum that you can from regular. And you can DEFINTELY get pregnant from precum, it's very unlikely but still possible and men usually do not know when they precum, just some info YOU should know :3 because you said usually which doesn't include always. He has had many partners before me but none recent (recent being within the last 2-3 years) but my boyfriend did say he released a LOT of precum in me so....I'm a little worried but he's more worried than I am because well...that's a more complicated situation than just this. You're not being harsh at all! I appreciate the honesty! Thank you SO much for not being judgemental, it's nice to have someone who's in the same sitation as me. Anyway, yes he's a little worked up so we both agreed that we wouldn't have sex anymore without condom's, where did YOU get condoms though? And where do you live? (Not specific location cuz that's unsafe but like if you live outside the U.S. if not, what state?) because I live in NY and I'm not sure if it's legal to purchase any form of birth control under the age of 18. Ty for your help!
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Hi! I'm Selina!
I've been through so much in my life, and these experiences have made me stronger... I love music, sunshine, and videogames.
I'm a pretty friendly, loving person and I'm here for anyone when they need it. I'm honest and I'm always open, so just inbox me!
Happiness is what I aim for.
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Gender: Female Location: Buffalo, New York Age: 16 Member Since: March 14, 2011 Answers: 46 Last Update: April 13, 2012 Visitors: 3939
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