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so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about three months and on friday he tells me that he's going out with friends for the weekend so he thinks something is gonna happen( meaning he might mess around with another chick) and he says if anything happens he will be honest with me about it so i'm like wtf is he being honest saying he cares or is he just taking me for granted
please help

It sounds like he might cheat on you someday. If he really cares about you he would not put himself in any position that might jeopardize your relationship. And he just blatantly went out and acknowledged that he knows something might happen, which shows that he truly believes he might cheat and wants you to think he is honest about it, which I truly believe that is his tactic of making you think he is honest and truthful, by saying "he will tell you if something happens". When I truly believe if he sleeps with another girl he won't tell you, and his response if you question him will be, " I told you I would tell you the truth if it did happen, baby..." It's a clever tactic to make you feel like he is being truthful. Beware of this guy. He seems like a player. Don't put up with that. You deserve a guy that appreciates what he has and doesn't go out and prepare to cheat on you. Screw him hun, and don't waste anymore time on this loser!

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(Rating: 5) omg i really didn't think of it like that thank you so much
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