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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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15 female
I dont really get dating. I get hit occasionally, and I never act on it because i think going out is basically friends with benifits. I never had a real boyfriend. I just don't get why do people want them other than the obvious.I do see people that I would surely like. but what do I say " hi I'm blah blah in you were looking really cute so I just wanted to say hi". That just sounds like a pick up line. If anyone can just explain to me what it is, it will surely help. Thanks

I used to feel the same way when I was your age, and still do sometimes. Some people like to have someone special in there life, to have fun, to be able to eventually find someone they will marry in the future. Going out with someone can be friends with benefits sometimes, but that is when you only hang out to do physical things. When you're truly with someone that you like and they like you,you two have something special together, a deeper bond than just friends with benefits. And also a tip, you don't have to have a boyfriend until you are ready, don't let your friends pressure you into getting one. Being an independent girl is a perfectly fine thing. Hope I helped!

-Brina

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