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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


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I'm starting to get a feeling that my boyfriend is losing interest. Its temporary long distance relationship (LDR), we'll see each other again in September.

What do I do? I love him and I don't want it to be over.

In the beginning of the summer we used to text everyday, and then it turned into one word answers on his part, but he'd still text me back right away. Now, if I text him, I'll get a reply late at night with a one word answer.

Things changed about two weeks ago. A week ago we got into a minor disagreement where he lost his temper a little bit, but I apologized the next day and he said I'm good. Since then he won't text me back til the end of the day. I texted him twice first, and he texted me once first.

How much time should I give him before I mention whats going on in our relationship? And I'm not texting him first for a while, unless he texts me first (oh the rules of texting, lol), just to give him some time to himself.

Any advice will be much appreciated

19/f

Hmm, maybe try and calling him instead of texting. That way, you don't have to wait sooo long for a text, and be down about it. If you speak on the phone, he won't say just one word and hang up. When you do talk to him, talk about something fun you both did together, so that he thinks of the great times you two have had together. Hope I helped! Good Luck!

-Brina

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(Rating: 3) He's losing interest, meaning he has no desire to talk to me, so I think calling him would just further annoy him
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