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hey! ok i have a friend and i guess she was just using me to get next to a guy she likes . the guy she likes is my friend and everytime i used to tell her he called me and things like that she would be calling me everyday. now that they aint together anymore she doesnt even bothers calling me..is not only that, is that a big problem happened...so i guess she hardly talks to me because of that big problem..but what bothers me is that in school she is all nice to me and is always looking for me but once she is out of school "pufff" she dissaperas..not even thru myspace she talks to me..it just pisses me off..and her cusin died and i was the one that was mostly there for her and she says am the only one that gives her good advices but now i dont even feel like talking to her..i think she is so fake towards me :( can you please help me. am sorry if this is too long . i just need some help on how to act with her.

It's hard when you feel like you've been being a great friend and the other person doesn't seem to appreciate it. If she was just using you to get to a guy then she really isn't worth it anyway.
Maybe she has been going through some things and has withdrawn from talking to you because she just doesn't want to deal with it (since she went to you after her cousin died). And maybe she is just mad because of "the big problem" and so that's why she isn't talking to you.
You could try to just keep being a good friend towards her; talking to her about her problems, being there for her etc. If she doesn't want to accept it, then you could simply stop talking to her, just as she is doing to you. She might eventually come back to you and start talking to you again.
You could also tell her how she's making you feel and try to help solve "the big problem". You could explain to her how she is making you angry since she never talks to you anymore.
Hope I helped :)

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