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Hi, im 14/f and my boyfriends 15. I'm an August baby, and all of my friends are september - even though we're in the same year at school, their almost a year older than me. In septmeber, when they turn 16, they'll be starting to have sex with their boyfriends. Even though i've been with my boyfriend for just as long as them (coming up 9 months)i wont be having sex until august 2011 - im not sure it's worth waiting that long.

We both love each other, and i'm not on about having sex now, maybe may next year? but i wanna know why its such a big deal to be over 16?!? should i wait - obviously i only would have sex if im ready. can i get some opinions?

Bearing in mind he'll be 17 next year. Thanks x

1. You're the one that is older because you were born in August. That makes your friends a month younger then you not a year older. Next year your boyfriend will be 16 because he is fifteen this year.

2. It does matter how long you've been with your boyfriend when it comes to sex but if you are not ready then don't do it. Just because you turn Sweet 16 doesn't mean you have to jump the gun and have sex. If you don't feel ready then don't do it because you may end up regretting it later even if it feels right now sometimes later down the road you may feel it wasn't such a good idea. And as for your friends they may say they are having sex but are they really? sometimes people say to feel more "Mature" or to "Fit in". Don't let age decide when you're ready to have sex. You decide.

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(Rating: 4) What i mean when i'm younger is my school year - all my year group friends are almost a year older than me (they're born in September '94 and i'm born in August '95, so we're still in the same school year). Thanks though :) x
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