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I feel wierd even asking this cause I think I already know the answer but are guys attracted to virgins? I am one and I don't know but I feel like it is a turn off so I want to lose it so a guy will think I have "experience." Has anyone else ever felt like this? Are there any guys here that can answer this too please?

Why would a guy want a virgin instead of a girl that has been with a bunch of guys and knows what she is doing for sex?

I feel stupid. 13/f

you are so young :) you have plenty of time to think about this but a guy cant tell if a girl is a virgin or not just by looking at them. if a guy is attracted to you it shouldn't matter if you area virgin or not. sometimes certain guys will go for certain girls because they come out as easy. losing your virginity to a guy so the next guy will think you have experience is not right. later you may regret doing that and it wont feel right. if a guy is going to accept you for who you are virgin or not it wont bother him. everyone wants to be experienced but even people who have had sex 50 times is probably really bad in bed. good luck. i hope i helped.. a little bit anyways.

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(Rating: 5) You are so right! I just never thought about it the way you put it. I also never thought bout it as disease exposure before, but now that I do, who wants to be with anyone boy or girl who has a higher chance of disease that can kill or make them infertile?
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